What to do with a girl if she loves me. What to do if you love a girl
For some reason, many are sure that guys experience a breakup in a relationship is not as painful as girls. However, this is absolutely not the case. What to do if a girl fell out of love with you? Is it possible to save feelings, and when should it be done? Why do girls leave at all? We will try to answer all of the above questions in this article. Stay with us!
How to understand that a girl fell out of love?
The girls don't go away deciding on it overnight - sometimes they think it over for months. During this period, any more or less attentive guy or man notices that something is wrong with his girlfriend. Suspicions begin and attempts to understand whether her feelings have not cooled down, whether she has someone else and what to do if the girl still fell out of love?
Let's try to answer this question by analyzing the most different situations from the sphere of personal relationships:
First of all, you should be alerted by the change in the behavior of your girlfriend. Most likely, restraint and coldness will be felt in the relationship. In addition, if a girl has stopped loving you, there will be a lack of care and understanding. In essence, you will live your life separately, being under the same roof.
Frequent quarrels are another sign that old feelings are fading. Yes, there can also be a crisis in a relationship, and conflicts may not be the main indicator of when you should break up. However, the lack of mutual understanding in case you always came to a consensus before is another important factor indicating big problems in a relationship.
Finally, the fact that the girl has other interests, new friends or new fans, definitely indicates that the girl has stopped loving you.
What to do if a girl fell out of love
Talk to the girl and find out how she feels. Find out if there is a chance to save your love. Sometimes in a relationship, indeed, there is a crisis. But it is worth solving some problem, and everything falls into place - a gap can be avoided. But if a girl has fallen out of love and her love has passed, then, of course, there is practically no chance of regaining her former feelings. In any case, you need to discuss the problem with your partner.
If a girl initiates a breakup and declares her desire to leave you, you should not keep her through threats or blackmail. Remember that your loved one should be happy, regardless of whether you make him happy or someone else.
What to do if a girl fell out of love with you? Try to forgive her and open your heart to new love. The less negativity you accumulate in yourself, the easier it will be to recover from mental trauma. So, forgive your partner, mentally wish her happiness and wait a while - insults will surely be forgotten!
Why do girls leave and leave guys
Many young people ask this question and do not understand why girls leave even the most positive men? What to do if you are abandoned? How to get a girl back if she is dear to you? Let's talk about it today.
Previously, if a guy and a girl started any kind of relationship, it almost always led to marriage, and divorce was something supernatural. If the family broke up, it was a real shame for both the man and the woman.
Everything has changed today. Yes, we still start romances and even get married, but if we want, we can get a divorce - this is perceived as normal. We no longer know what the true reason is, but we can say for sure that a person can make a decision about a break in the most different occasions, and today the initiator of the breakup can be both a guy and a girl. Why are the girls leaving?
Love is gone - one of the biggest reasons girls leave. Initially, relationships are based on passion, which means that people pay more attention to physical compatibility. But some time passes, and all the features of the characters of the partners come to the surface. It turns out that you have different views on everything: life, the future, raising children, etc.
Also, over time, some of you may simply change life priorities, and this will also lead to the fact that the relationship will change. Sometimes love passes just like that, and girls leave for no reason. This, too, should be taken as normal, since a person is not a machine, and we cannot order ourselves to fall in love or hate others sharply. So, if a girl leaves and explains her decision precisely by the fact that she does not love you, most likely this is so.
Why else do girls leave - because they fall in love with other guys / men. More precisely, the person with whom she wants to connect her life. It is to him that she will leave you. You should not try to keep your beloved by persuasion, blackmail, threats, if she has already made a decision and does not intend to be with you. Try to understand her, forgive her, free your soul from negative emotions and switch your attention to finding a soul mate.
Sometimes girls leave because love is over. Yes, feelings can pass or go into another form that is not acceptable to a particular person. It is known that in the early years, relationships are built more on passion. However, after a while, it dries up, and a harsh reality sets in, for which few are ready. Sometimes girls realize that they don't have feelings for their boyfriends.
Why torture each other? It is possible that parting will be the only right option in this case. However, if you hear that they want to leave you, but want to try to save the relationship, be sure to talk about it with your partner. Find out what you need to do to win her favor again, find out what did not suit the girl in a relationship with you.
A girl can just meet another person and decide to spend her whole life with him. What to do if the girl leaves? If the decision has already been made, then most likely you will not be able to convince your partner. Let her go, forgive her and wish her happiness. By the way, it is possible that in the future your relationship will regain a second life.
Not always lovers in ordinary life are so close and dear. It's a relationship that falls into the "forbidden fruit" category that can seem wildly romantic. But in fact, it turns out that only sex unites you - in everyday life and in their views on life, people are completely different. So, it is quite possible that the girl will quickly realize this and return. And you already decide whether to forgive her or not.
There are other reasons why girls leave, but they are not so significant. It is best if you learn the true motives from your beloved by talking to her. This will help you understand her and get over the breakup faster.
Finally, we hasten to give you one helpful advice. Do not accumulate resentment in yourself and do not think too much about why the girl left you. It is better to direct your energy to finding your soulmate, and not to finding the answer to the question "why do girls leave." Try to make another girl happy and she will never leave you!
Psychologists, like no one else, know what to do if you love a girl. Of course, you need to please her and fall in love with yourself. Think it's hard? Nothing like this! Let's do it...
If you love a girl - act
So, there are a number of attractiveness factors that you have to use to awaken the feelings of your girlfriend for you.
- Spatial closeness. We fall in love with those whom we often see nearby: at school, at work, in the yard. If you love a girl, make sure that she sees you often. No need to run after her like a boy, just always be there by chance, as if by chance. It's like music: the more often we hear the same song on the radio, the more we like it when we listen to it again. We are strongly attracted to those around us.
- similarity. We prefer people who are like us. Don't believe the saying that opposites attract. Numerous studies have been carried out, the results of which indicate that loving friend friend have common basic values, interests, attitudes, intellectual abilities. If you love a girl, find common interests, topics for conversation, common activities.
- Reciprocity. We like those who like us more. Compliment the girl casually, praise her, smile. People always respond positively to such signs of favor. Studies have confirmed that expressing affection for a person elicits the same response.
- Physical attractiveness. This factor is only in fourth place, but good looks really have a powerful influence. Don't get hung up on your natural facial features or build. Just take care of yourself, dress nicely, get a modern haircut, be clean and tidy, make sure that you always smell good and your hair is clean. Be interested in stylish things, girls like it.
- Love yourself. Remember very important rule Until you love yourself, no one else will love you! Love yourself, take care of yourself, find positive moments in your appearance, character, activity and start being proud of it. Be confident in yourself to interest a girl.
So what do you do if you love a girl? Consider all these factors of attractiveness, and also do not miss the moment, your chance. No need to wait for the weather by the sea. As soon as you understand that the girl just treats you positively, without negativity, start taking the bull by the horns, take care of her. Give her a flower, write a note, flirt when communicating in the same social networks. If you notice that she instantly replies to your messages, slow down a little and wait 7-10 minutes before texting her a reply. Why is it important not to miss the moment? Because while you are inactive, the other guy may start courting her first and.
What to do if you love a girl, but you do not communicate? It's just dangerous to start caring for her all of a sudden. You need to feel the situation. How to do this, you already know from the attractiveness factors. But another very useful thing is friendship with a girl! Oh, how often girls fall in love with their friends of the opposite sex. Use this technique, become a very good friend to her without a hint of love. Share your difficulties with her (girls love to help, solve problems), be always, always there, become best friend. Just do not delay, after a couple of weeks of such close communication, you can gradually begin to flirt, show your feelings. If you wait a moment, you will forever go into the status of "just a friend."
Hello friends! My name is Vitaly Okhrimenko, and today we will briefly talk about a topic that is vital for many of us, when you love her, and she loves another. It often happens when a guy says: "I love her." And then he sadly adds: "... but she loves a completely different one." What to do when you love sincerely, truly, to the point of losing your mind, and the girl chose another guy? The situation is quite complicated, but not uncommon, almost classic.
What to do if a girl loves another
What to do if your loved one was taken away by another? Stole it from you, defeated you not by force, but by some other means. When the word "love" brings only pain and disappointment. After all, he will not be able to love her the way you love. You are ready to give her everything, raise her to the level of the 7th heaven, carry her in your arms. But he is still the favorite. And how to be, really to surrender? Or muster up the courage and rush into battle? Into a battle where there are no rules, where you don't know what and how to do, where the winner will get the most expensive prize.
This article is unlikely to suit those who are frivolous about the issue of relationships, those who are looking for love for a while. Now I will try to simulate a situation for those people who have found the meaning of their lives in their beloved girl. So, for accessibility, I will describe the story of one guy, and then I will try to figure out which practical advice can help you achieve your goal.
Main character This story met a pretty girl. Meeting this girl was unremarkable. And he could not think that she would take so much space in his life. The girl was cute and funny. From the moment they met, the guy knew that she was in love with another, and when they quarreled with this other, he sincerely empathized with her. But over time, our hero began to notice changes in his attitude towards this girl, he suddenly felt a "force of attraction" to her. Friendship gradually turned into sympathy, and sympathy into love. And the boy understood that it was wrong, but he could no longer stop. He was silent about his desires and dreams. But the moment came when he realized that he was also not indifferent to this girl. Only a damned conscience did not allow her to show her feelings. He loves something like that, the other, but our guy also has “special feelings”.
Also, the guy knew that he had no moral right to force the girl he loved to do anything. I tried to restrain myself, realizing that the girl was afraid to rush and ruin everything. As with one, so with the other. But at the same time, he realized that he could not endure these torments for a long time. That the time will come when he will put the girl before a choice. He does not want her to suffer, only he does not want to suffer. He does not want to take it to extremes, but he sees that this love triangle cannot lead to something good. He sees her, sees how she looks at him, feels her feelings. The desire to be near is growing, and willy-nilly, he begins to wonder: does she love that other. And if he loves, then why is he drawn to our hero? He does not want to spoil relations with her, but he can no longer be a friend physically.
Most of all, he wants to know what to do if the girl he loves loves another. Wait until she understands her attitude, loves you and leaves that - the other? Or is it better to forget her, or maybe change their attitude and remain friends, instead of tying their lives together.
The story is real, and our boy is not the only one with whom such antics of Cupid happened. Many young people find themselves in these traps, not knowing what to do. Only not everyone succeeds in getting out of such love alterations correctly. What is your advice to this guy? How to do it right?
What to do if the girl chose another
Our hero is very lucky, because he is interesting to the object of his sigh, and this is such a big plus. It would be much worse if the girl did not notice a man in him at all. And if she cannot decide to take a serious step only because of the prohibitions of her conscience, then she already had to think about this guy as not only a friend, and that's good. So the lady of the heart shows to our guy not only friendly feelings. You can make the right conclusion that he has a chance, the main thing is to use it. You need to choose the right model of behavior and follow it.
How to win a girl if she loves another
First of all, you need to learn that there are times when inaction is better than any action. For example, do not be too keen to reveal your desire for this girl. In the case when she is very worried about the inability to cope with her feelings, the feelings will grow if the guy tries to show his feelings in physical form. Do not forcefully climb with kisses and hugs. Everything should happen naturally, so that the girl does not feel like a cornered horse. She should feel that she took the step herself. If the girl decides on this act (or will consider that she has decided), in fact, she will make her choice. After all, just one kiss can open her eyes to her feelings. And only after that we can expect that she will leave that other boyfriend and make our boy happy with her love. Even if the girl is not yet ready for such a cardinal decision, the chance of our hero after a passionate kiss will greatly increase.
If a girl loves another what to do
It is worth remembering that every person has a whole mountain of his shortcomings. And you can easily play on the shortcomings of that first guy, competently contrasting against his background. He does things in any way that our girlfriend does not like (here, she has already become ours). You can analyze her discontent, and show yourself in these places from the opposite side. You shouldn't get out of your skin, proving to her that her boyfriend is so bad. In general, there is no need to speak badly about him, a feeling of protest may arise in a girl, she may rush to his defense, and then everything is lost. You need to fight using "white PR", use, as an argument, your best qualities to counterbalance his worst. Women, unlike men, subconsciously seek best guy, and such a trick is sure to play on her mind.
It happens that it is really difficult for a girl to choose, she is already used to her boyfriend, and then someone suddenly bursts into her life. To win her, you need to become a knight for her, who will not impose himself, but always appears at the right time. And most importantly - this knight loves her and is ready to prove his love.
The above situation is not the most difficult of the possible "she loves another" scenarios. There can be a whole bunch of obstacles, like family and children. If you love a girl, and she chose someone else, describe your situation in the comments and together we will try to find the only correct model of your behavior.
Well, so that this never happened to us, you need to know, and.
Love each other in return. Good luck to everyone in love relationships!
With notes of empathy Vitaly Okhrimenko .
