What does it mean if you dreamed of an ex-boyfriend. Dream Interpretation: what is the ex-girlfriend dreaming of

Very often we dream about what we think or what we want. Seeing an ex-girlfriend in a dream is a quite common phenomenon after the end of a relationship. If you saw your ex in a dream, then most likely you have not forgotten her and want to restore relations. Whatever you say, but you still have feelings for her, you have not completely put an end to the relationship. You spend a lot of time thinking about her.

What to do if an ex-girlfriend often dreams

Such frequent dreams should be regarded as a call to action. You need to make every effort to forget her and find a new girl. You need to finally decide for yourself that it's all over with that one. Feel free to start a new life, fate will surely bring you together with your soul mate.

But, if you can’t let it go, and even after much effort you still want to return it, then don’t lose hope and take the first step. AT this case, your heart and intuition will definitely tell you if this is really your soul mate. Carefully analyze your future life, do you see her with you in old age, do you want children from her. If you have a positive answer to all this, then discard all principles and pride and run to measure it. After all, this is the reason that the ex-girlfriend often dreams. Everything is completely in your hands - act!

Let us return, nevertheless, to the interpretation of dreams. To dream about how you met with an ex-girlfriend portends you a new relationship. There is a high probability that you will renew a relationship with her, or you will get along with a well-known other girl, but to whom you have always been only friendly.

But, besides this, meeting with the former in a dream can mean problems of a sexual nature, the cause of which lies in former relationship. Perhaps it was because of this that you broke up, and now it haunts you. This problem needs to be urgently addressed, because otherwise you will not be able to start a new life.

Seeing an ex-girlfriend in a dream is not the most pleasant dream. Although you dreamed that you had a sexual relationship with her, then wait for the reunion of the union. Moreover, she will be the initiator, so you can do nothing. Let everything take its course, she will do everything herself. But before that happens, you will experience what it is like to be alone! Loneliness will become your neighbor for a long time, but everything will end favorably for you. Kissing in a dream portends you having fun with friends. You are waiting for holidays and joyful events, meeting with friends.

When you often dream of an ex-girlfriend who calls you, this indicates that she is very bored and suffers without you. The ex-lover thinks a lot about breaking up the relationship and wants to make peace. If she cries, then she is fine. ex girlfriend happy in the new life, probably.

If you just talked to her, then wait for greetings from the past. You may meet someone you haven't seen for a very long time. It can be both a pleasant meeting and not so much.

What changes in life should be expected if an ex-girlfriend dreamed in a dream

Seeing a quarrel with an ex-girlfriend in a dream should be regarded as a warning that a plan is being prepared against you. You want to substitute a person whom you completely trust. Therefore, review your surroundings and try to identify the hypocrite and the traitor.

To dream about how you marry her promises you very serious changes in life. They can be both personal and professional. Expect a sharp turn of events. For example, a wedding, the birth of a child, dismissal from work.

If you fought with her in a dream, then unexpected news and events await you. You certainly did not expect this, they will cause you a storm of emotions.

Seeing an ex-girlfriend in a dream with a new boyfriend suggests that you have a choice: either you start a new relationship, or you remain single. The third is not given, relations with her will not be resumed, everything is over. Accept it and move on.

To reconcile in a dream and become a couple again says that there is some kind of reluctance in your relationship, something still connects you with your ex-girlfriend. The only way out in this situation is to meet, talk and dot the i's. There is a good chance that you will be fine.

In a dream, the ex-girlfriend dreamed of being joyful and cheerful - for a new meeting and pleasant acquaintances.

If she died in a dream, then it is worth perceiving that the whole past has died. A new one is waiting for you interesting life where there is no more room for her. You are now free, so you can enjoy your new position.

The dream in which you died together promises you serious changes. Something will happen that for you has a very great importance it will change your whole life.

If your ex-wife in a dream passes by you, not paying any attention to you, then this clearly indicates that everything has passed. There is little chance that you will get better. She is offended by you, hates and crossed you out of her life. The same can be said about the dream in which you met her absolutely calmly, without unnecessary emotions.

If an ex-girlfriend comes to you very often in a dream for a long time, then this means that she thinks about you and often remembers. Her image flies to you in a dream to see you. But you should call her, because it is possible that something happened to her. Even the worst fears are not ruled out.

In a dream, an ex-girlfriend dreamed naked, she says that she has grief or big problems. She really needs your help.

How to get rid of dreams with an ex-girlfriend

If you are stressed by such dreams and cause great discomfort, then you need to mentally ask her for forgiveness. Then she will stop dreaming about you. Seeing an ex-girlfriend in a dream is quite difficult for those who have gone through a period of separation and related scandals and ups and downs.

Some interpret a dream with an ex-girlfriend in a different way. They claim that it does not bring anything good. Serious problems, troubles and illnesses await you. Relationships with friends may go wrong, you will lose the respect of colleagues. Moreover, the consequences of such a dream directly depend on how you broke up with her. The worse and harder the parting was, the big problems you should expect. If you parted as friends, then everything will be limited to minor minor troubles.

Of great importance is the feeling with which you wake up after this dream. If you still have pleasant feelings, but you are sad that this is just a dream, then everything will work out for you in the future. You will not go anywhere from each other, you will be together, as before.

Dear readers, what can you say about dreams with the former? Has anyone gone through a breakup in a relationship?

Valuable reader comments

    Oh, Igor, how detailed! you're really young! I will only ask you about dreams ... I often have prophetic dreams ... Do you remember me about a fur coat? - said so 100% ...

    • Lara, contact, of course!

    Thank God I don't dream about my ex! And you probably wouldn't wake up!

    Igor, thank you for the musical gift. Wonderful composition. And a dream in this case, it is a dream.

    • Great, Anatoly, that you liked Muse.

    Thank you for an interesting and informative article on dreams. The musical gift is wonderful!

    • Seeing a former chewy in a dream is always difficult. But knowing exact interpretation sleep is always easier.

    If sleeping with an ex is for the best, it's nice. Let everything be only for positive changes. Wonderful clip.. Thank you, Igor.

    • Different interpretations, but with a positive attitude - everything will be fine!

    Very interesting interpretation of dreams about the former! Never tried to analyze them. Thank you, Igor, I will pay attention to such dreams.

    AT recent years 5 I don’t see anything in a dream - as if I’m falling into some kind of hole ... Is this bad?

    • The routine is probably taking its toll.

    I really liked your article! Before that, I read a lot of different information on this topic, but your article is the best! I have a question for you! Can you help me interpret my dream about an ex-girlfriend, as it contains different situations? Thanks in advance!

    • So write directly in the comments, we will understand your dream!

    The dream was like this. I met my ex-girlfriend in some restaurant in the evening. We sat and talked nicely, it seems to me even with a little flirting. Then the scene abruptly changes and we are already riding in a taxi. We sit in the back seat and start kissing. Kissing turns into almost sex. Then we get to her house, she is going to leave, and when she leaves, she says the following phrase (I remember very clearly): “I love you! I do not love my husband, but I will always love you! She says this phrase in upset feelings, because she needs to leave, almost in tears! And that's where the dream ends!
    My ex-girlfriend has been married for almost 5 years and we haven't talked to her at all for 3 years! But I met her by chance about a month and a half ago and we communicated with her on the Internet for two weeks! In general, that's it! Thanks in advance!

    • Most likely, this is a dream of purely erotic content. It happens that after meeting with a former love, our brain starts to work without us, and in a dream it shows the results of its work.
      If you analyze deeply, then this may mean a new relationship for you, which may come as a complete surprise. Well, this is purely from the field of esotericism. After all, if you already have a girlfriend, then such a dream is a quarrel that will help renew relationships. Thanks to her, everything will fall into place, a different order will come.
      I hope that I helped you a little in interpreting the dream.
      If you have any questions feel free to write!

    Thank you very much! It's great that you respond to comments right away! With your help, everything became clear to me! The only thing I would like to ask you is what could her phrase mean?

    • Please!
      So it is also in a general sense. This dream has nothing to do with her. Just such a symbol in your subconscious. You swore with her, for sure, that's why it stuck in your head, the ex-girlfriend in this context is a quarrel ... Well, I already described it, I won't repeat it.

    Hello. In general, the situation is as follows. Lived with a girl for 10 years. At one point she said she was tired of everything and left. Tried to get it back for a year to no avail. freedom suits her better. walked all over. she will meet a man for 2 months, she is told goodbye, etc. she dreams regularly. here is the last dream ... I am driving in my car with a friend and a man is driving a trolleybus to meet her and she is standing next to me. recognized her immediately. she recognized me, she saw me. for some reason, the thought came that her man was driving a trolleybus. we turn around and follow the trolleybus to the end. We arrived, they get out and go somewhere together. I catch up and grab her by the neck, as it were. I say this who is at all, what nonsense. This guy just walked and left without even looking back. she is silent, all I wake up. Please tell me what this means, thanks in advance.

    • Denis, a dream means only your past. You tried to get her back. Constantly, as it were, they were catching up, but she immediately immediately was in front, that is, she refused to make peace. Perhaps this is her fate. Nothing can be done. You can, of course, wait for her if you love, but betrayal is a serious matter, not everyone is able to forgive this.
      Judging by the car in your dream, you were the leader in your relationship. Perhaps you did everything right, but it seemed to her the opposite. Like, limit it.

      • Thanks a lot. Basically, that's how it is. It just didn't end there. I've been dreaming every day for over a week now. Dreams are bright and clear. Each dream ends with the meaning that we put up and everything is fine. Yesterday I generally dreamed that we were making love and in general everything was fine. Today I dreamed that I was saying how good I am and there is no one better than me. What does all this mean? Thanks in advance.

        • You need to build new relationships. Because dreams already have an erotic meaning that speaks of a lack of physiological love or emotional connection.

          • Thanks!!!

    Good afternoon! the dream was like this. I don’t remember what happened before, but I only remember how, in almost complete darkness, I saw my ex-girlfriend. I run after her, I try to
    catch up and nothing happens. I’m already close to her, touched her, but she runs away and I don’t see her anymore.

    • Most likely, you will meet her in the near future. This does not mean the resumption of relations. It is also possible to hear the news regarding her.

      • Thanks a lot!)

    I have no words! everything is very clear! but I wanted to ask the author such a very personal question!

    • Please ask. I'm waiting.

    good afternoon! I dream that I’m calling an ex-girlfriend, she hangs up and then she calls back and says don’t call what you wanted. Then I woke up. Thanks in advance

    • Most likely, one of you is looking for a meeting, or just wants to know some news.
      There is also a chance to just randomly run into an ex-girlfriend on the street.

    Hello. I dreamed that the ex-girlfriend offered to be together (they broke up on her initiative). But I refused, because I have already been dating another for quite some time (and it really is). What is it for? Thanks in advance.

    • He says there are still disagreements. Such dreams indicate that you thought about her in the near future.

    Hello, thanks in advance for the interpretation! Two years ago, I broke up with a girl, for a long time I was killed looking for a meeting, in fact, time has passed, I have a different relationship for a long time, and recently I began to dream about her. I am talking with my girlfriend in a well-known, comfortable place, but I understand that her image has reincarnated into the former, and although I am talking with my real girlfriend, I see the former, the most interesting thing is that she attracts me very much))

    • Perhaps this dream is a consequence of your thoughts, why did you break up and what were the motives for this. Such a purely psychological dream.

    Hello! Explain to me, please, my situation. This spring, he broke up with a girl, for 2-3 months he seemed to be out of his mind: he didn’t sleep well, ate, his business fell apart before his eyes, he lost weight and haggard. We haven't spoken or seen each other since July. A couple of weeks ago, she dreamed of me, told me in a dream: “You know, but I, after all, have never been with a single man until now.” As I understand it, she meant sex. Didn't sleep with anyone. Just now (I accidentally dozed off at 9 pm) I dreamed again: I am sitting by the river on the beach, looking at the water, at the swimmers. Suddenly I see a girl floating with a haircut like my ex. The girl turns in the water and I see that it is her. She has no emotions on her face, she just swims calmly. I got up and walked along the shore. What are these 2 dreams supposed to mean to me? I still love her and think about her almost every day. Thanks in advance! Gleb

    • Gleb, I do not want to give vain hopes. But the sea in a dream is a rather positive image. But it also means uncertainty. I will say this: the end of your relationship has not yet been set. I hope that helped.

    Hello. He divorced his common-law wife, with whom he lived for 4 years
    As I found out that she had another, she stopped dreaming, but today she dreamed again
    Absolutely naked, we hugged and she kind of regretted that she left me
    She said that I was not really the same as she thought.
    Why such a dream?

    • To sadness. There is a small element of an erotic dream. Read why they dream. I have an article on my blog.

    Good afternoon.
    A little over 3 months ago, the bride left. The case has definitely already approached the wedding, but she left for an absolutely incomprehensible reason (there were suggestions that the relatives opposed, but this is not the reason, I think). So, for the first 2 months, the girl dreamed constantly, but she did not want to get in touch with me. Tried to get her back in every way. And after 3 months, she quietly got married and left. Last night I dreamed about my other girlfriend, whom we met 10 years ago. We kind of met at a reunion, then retired to another empty room. Other people were constantly trying to enter this room to see what we were doing there. At first she started talking to me about my fiancee, but I interrupted her and we started having sex. Only now, in the process of this action, I understand that I am doing this with my bride (that is, all physical signs were hers). Later, he woke up. I would like to understand what this is about. I really love my ex-fiancee very much, and I never understood what made me leave her.

    • Most likely, this dream is inspired by constant thoughts about an ex-girlfriend. The fact that people tried to break into the room means your thoughts that haunt you endlessly.
      The very fact of physical contact speaks of love for her, the desire to return. In many ways, there are also elements of an erotic dream. They are not interpretable, but only a reflection of our desires and pure physiological needs.
      Did you dream about anything else? Maybe small details? You still need to understand why she decided to leave you. Understand, nothing just happens.
      If you figure it out, then life will become easier, and dreams will disappear.

      • Thanks for the answer.
        I don’t even know what other small details to remember. I wrote that my ex (the one I dated 10 years ago) was trying to tell me about my ex-fiance when I interrupted her. She said something like “she had a fight or an argument with some old woman” or something like that. I don't think it matters.
        There were more dreams before. For example, in one she was very affectionate with me and said that everything was fine, they say solve your problems and we will be together (at that time I could not find a job). And then there was another dream when she walked past me twice and did not even pay attention. I don’t like it when I don’t understand something, but in this story I generally remained incomprehensible.

        • And from the small nuances: when they began to look into our room constantly, I decided to lock it up. But the door turned out to be some kind of old one and closed with an old hook, which, moreover, did not hold anything. From somewhere I found a wire and with it tightened the door to the jamb to the limit, so that it was already impossible to open it.
          Maybe that explains something.

          • Castles dream of doubt. “Tightened to the limit” suggests that emotions at that time were furious.
            If you want dreams about a girl to stop dreaming, then after sleeping, look at the flame of a candle or tell a dream to a stone. (No matter how ridiculous it may look).
            Unfortunately, I cannot tell you why and why. You need to find out for yourself if feelings remain, or start life from scratch. As they say, forgive and let go!
            Good luck to you!

    Will there be no answer?

    • Already wrote.

    Help turn around. I grew up with a girl 6 months ago (she left for another) it was very hard to accept everything. Time has faded a little ... but ... I began to dream, (at first I didn’t dream) in different ways (and how we got together, we talk, closeness) it became sad and angry again .. I don’t want to bring her back. During this time, no contact was made. For some reason, I want to eventually take and take revenge, destroy, only her. (although a person with a good heart, I love everything). What's this?

    • It often happens when a lover thinks about his beloved, then such dreams are dreamed. Some feelings remained, then such dreams are quite common.
      In them special meaning no, because you constantly think about it and wind yourself up.

    Hello. I dreamed about my ex-girlfriend, literally 30 minutes ago I just woke up and decided to look on the internet and came across this! I dreamed that she was pregnant, why would that be?! We broke up in September and over the course of these couple of months she dreamed of me many times, the pain subsided slightly and she didn’t dream anymore! but 30 minutes ago she dreamed of a pregnant woman, I don’t know from whom. Thanks in advance! Kolya.

    • There are many interpretations. I have articles on this topic on my blog. Just type in search.
      And so, it is possible that to surprise or the emergence of some new ideas regarding old ideas.

    Good day. Every night I dream about my ex-girlfriend. A month ago, she went to another, said that she didn’t love me and wouldn’t live with me. In a dream, she can dream as if we were together, but I feel that she is lying to me in a dream, she doesn’t tell me something. In a dream, I touch her and kiss her. The last I had a dream with a short haircut, hair color is white. I'm already tired of these dreams, what to do, how to behave. What are these dreams for?

    Hello! My husband and I broke up about a year ago, I was the initiator. I love him very much, but I can't live with him. I think about him all the time, I rarely dream about him. I recently had a dream. In a dream, he looked very bad, his face was swollen with bruises, either he was very sick, or he was drinking heavily. I saw him sick in my dreams more than once. What are these dreams for?

    • Perhaps experiencing a breakup. The simplest explanation is a prophetic dream.

    hello, help me interpret, such a dream, the former had a dream, we spent time in some apartment, or some other place, talked merrily, suffered from garbage, but at some moments she sharply began to perceive with hostility seemingly absolutely harmless, neutral phrases and jokes. the fact is that more than six months ago we broke up with her, and it was an extremely emotional scene, a lot of offensive provocative words were said, both on my part and on her part, we didn’t contact at all for 2 months, it seems that we don’t even think about her I thought that cheerful friends help to forget, but then I dreamed like a bolt from the blue, and again something began to play inside

    • As an option, this is connected with that dream about the cemetery. If you are now at a crossroads, then you should stop and think about the past, make an assessment of priorities. Past relationships do not give rest, which means that the dots are not set, or it is worth starting a new relationship, deleting the past completely from memory.

    Hello, please help. In general, I am far from all interpretations of dreams, but the sequence scares me a little. (About the ex-girlfriend a little further) It all started on the night from Sunday to Monday - I dreamed of the death of a very close friend, now I don’t remember any details except that I cried furiously, woke up with a sharp sense of anxiety, this very rarely happens to me, called him, he did not pick up the phone, he was on his nerves until the evening, until it turned out that he was taken to the hospital that night and operated on (fortunately, everything is fine now). Today I dreamed about the death of an ex-girlfriend. We were in some territory with three different one-story houses, she lived in one of the neighboring ones. Someone constantly forced me to go to her, but I refused, until, in general, it turned out that she had died there .. I sobbed a lot, shouted that I didn’t know that this would happen .. We broke up about two years ago on her initiative, there was no contact with her I support none at all, from time to time she only tries in every possible way to remind herself by calling, she wanted to meet with me through friends several times, this week she just called again. A little uncomfortable now .. Sorry for writing so long ..

    • Nick, good evening. It's okay, I read everything.
      Anxious dreams usually promise all sorts of negative things. Chases, falls, threats in a dream - this is all that can be a bad dream.
      Death is a dream, on the contrary, to rather good events. It speaks of life from scratch. Such a dream promises longevity, such a paradox.
      As for the girl ... the fact is that crying in a dream is also, in general, not bad. Usually they say that crying in a dream means rejoicing in reality.
      As for the girl…Maybe it’s worth visiting her, or at least asking how she is in a friendly way?!
      Good luck and don't worry!

      • Thanks for your reply! =)

    Hello, help me to break the dream! I dreamed of an ex-girlfriend, she came to eat with me on a break at work! Why would?

    • Perhaps you will meet her by chance in a place related to your work. Another dream can be interpreted as news, but not necessarily about a girl.

    Hello, I broke up with a girl a month and a half ago on her initiative .. We met for about three years. In the summer, they also parted for a month but agreed, I ran after her with all my might and achieved my goal, I didn’t sleep, I didn’t eat, it was very bad .. Since she said that she still loves me but doesn’t want to be with me, although we had everything for 2 years well, but then frequent quarrels appeared, and she said that she couldn’t stand it anymore, but still we got together .. And now, after 3 months, we parted on her own initiative for the same reason, I brought her to tears and forced her to say that she fell out of love and hates me and it became easier for me, I later apologized for this and we remained friends .. And I didn’t run after her, get her, we didn’t communicate for 3 weeks, then we began to communicate a little as friends .. But during this time she I dream every day, I’m already afraid to sleep, and in all our dreams everything is fine, and the fact is that I always dream of her in the morning after all my dreams .. Recently I even visited her, talked, she also misses and says that I was dreaming of her, I found out that she was very worried about our parting, she even started smoking, as she said because of and nerves, although she couldn’t stand smokers at all .. And here’s how to get rid of dreams with her? Today I had a dream like this in general: we are lying half-naked at her house, apparently after sex, but I don’t remember, I remember that I was only stroking her ass, and this morning, she then gets up and quickly puts on her panties and her mother comes in (with her mother I good relations and still sometimes we even call her back) and mom is glad that we made up .. And I wake up

    hello broke up with ex girlfriend 3 years ago, oh I just don’t think about her, because she already has a husband and a child and a strong resentment towards her, and from time to time I dream of her that she’s together again and everything like that. Could this mean that she thinks, remembers me?

    • Maybe. But it is more likely that you remembered her.

    Hello! I had a dream in the form of a vision! It all started like this: I opened the door and went home! I go into the kitchen and see that my ex is washing the dishes, I go to her gently hug and kiss her neck! and she sits down for me, I put you to eat! and I was about to start eating, when I hear some noise from the room. I leave the kitchen and see supposedly my 3-year-old son (although I don’t have children), he messed up even! I punish him and put him in a corner, while watching him from around the corner of the kitchen. he mumbles, is nervous and it smiled at me))) and then she gets excited (for some reason she was very happy, but it was clear that something was missing), I take her in my arms gently kiss, and suddenly my lower back grabs, I try carefully put her on a chair, but she manages to hit! then she jumps off even grumbles at me and runs off to the kitchen, I will apologize to her, but she has already calmed down herself! I call my son, sit down with him in a place to eat! and I look at him like that, I say that I love him very much, kiss him on the head and wake up !!! the whole dream was in the first person and all the feelings that I felt in the dream were like in reality! and when I woke up, for some reason I was very happy ??? what is all this for? thanks in advance))

    • It really does look like clips from the future. And such happy emotions. Perhaps you will have a child.
      By the way, a dream may well mean a new relationship. Kissing - to pleasant surprises.

    Hello, I can’t anymore ... I broke up almost a month ago ... I already don’t feel anything for her, I’m even dating another girl ... They talk about what you think about before going to bed, then you dream ... Although I don’t think about her at all .. But still I dream every night!!! I'm already going crazy ... I'm tired of this ... Guys tell me what to do please !!!

    • Tell dreams about her to stone or fire. Just find some cobblestone and mentally (you can aloud) tell him a dream. Or flames, such as candles or lighters. Many people find these methods helpful. If not, then you really need to go through this period. Time cures. Good luck to you.

    Thank you very much for the advice ... I’ll try to do it !!! Today I dreamed about her again ... In a dream, we were together again, and she herself came to me ... What does this mean? Thank you in advance.

    Hello! I've been dating a guy for over a year. I dated my ex for 3 years. Jealousy towards her is still terrible (I had a dream. We are riding with my boyfriend on the bus. I sleep and through a dream I see that the guy is texting with a friend (she is a friend of his ex-girlfriend), then somehow his ex suddenly appears and tells him, that she is pregnant, but not by him, and he begins to cry.
    Why is this, tell me, please!!!

    Hello! My story is this: more than a year and a half ago, we broke up with a girl on her initiative! However, after that, about a month later, we got together and after half a year we parted again on her initiative! I worried about this for a very long time, literally killed myself, my heart was breaking, I finally fell apart ... But slowly, after about half a year or 8 months, I began to recover, I learned to control my emotions, I got stronger mentally! But all this time I thought about her every day, I just can’t get her out of my head! Yes, and she constantly reminds of herself, calls, writes, seeks meetings. And I don’t seem to mind, but after such rare conversations, a strange feeling still remains ... Although it seems that only with her I had and possibly in the future a happy existence ... Well, okay ... For the last few months we haven’t communicated almost at all, I often dreamed about her in dreams, which I somehow more or less tried to interpret, but I can’t understand the last dreams! She dreams that we come with her to the company of familiar guys relaxing on the beach (she had a short-term relationship with one of those present after our breakup) and she lies down on a sun lounger and exposes her chest to sunbathe topless, at this moment I start to feel out of my mind plate, it becomes somehow ashamed of it ... Or some similar sensations ... What would it be for ?! I had a similar dream 3 months ago. We also came together to the company of acquaintances and she was in very revealing clothes, almost naked and everything was transparent and all the charms were visible, and in a dream I was haunted by about the same sensations. Please help interpret these dreams.

    • Sergey, why did you break up? I understand that you love her more than she loves you.
      The dream speaks of jealousy on your part. That's just how it is justified: I can not judge.

      • We broke up for the reason that she went to study in another country and there were always suspicions on her part of my betrayals, she stopped believing in me after one incident and decided to leave me. Although I feel that her feelings for me have not cooled down, and a spark is glimmering in me! I can’t take anyone seriously after her, although I’m completely not deprived of female attention! Maybe jealousy for the reason that during the period of our separation, he had a brief relationship with a guy who is not very pleasant to me?

        • Quite possible. Feelings in a dream play a very important role. Here you felt in a dream that you were not at ease. After all, that's the way it is.
          So go to her, where is she now? If close, then why not go to this country to work.

          From my life experience already.
          Romances at a distance rarely end successfully. There are many different BUTs, although, as a rule, someone will still change, and misunderstandings, problems, and suspicions will already accumulate on an increasing basis.

    Nothing helps ... I don’t know what to do already. Maybe go to church?

    • It seems to me that your problem is deeper, and dreams are just the tip of the iceberg.

      Of course, I don't know where you live, Maxim. But in Western countries, it is customary to solve such problems in consultations with a psychoanalyst. The main thing is to find peace of mind, if you are a believer, then religion can certainly help you.

    I live in the Khabarovsk Territory ... So I also think that it will help !!!

    • In any case, I wish you good luck!

    I broke up with a girl for now, I just don’t do anything so as not to return, but she says they say the feelings have passed while you were thinking about your problems, I can only give friendship. And I still want to return and prove to her that I'm different. Help explain the dream, the first one was like this: “she was in the room at the gas station, I went to the window, she was sitting there like a cashier, she smiled, we didn’t talk about something for a long time and I wanted to go to her, went around this room on the street, she was standing behind I came up and the door was closed and my thoughts were such that there was money in the cash desk and she couldn’t open the door yet, I lay down at the door and waited for her next to her, there was some kind of dog when she lay down, let’s try to bite me, she even bit me, but I’m here with my fist He gave her a blow on the head, that is, he calmed her down. “. And the second dream today is already “I stood with her, walked, talked about the fact that I want to return her and he asked what goals you were following and smiled all the time, I even hugged her.” Then another picture is such that I climbed onto the garage and saw she was driving a car, she saw me and greeted me with a smiling hand. Explain what these dreams mean, in life we ​​still communicate with her either by SMS or calls, but I’m doing everything to return her. I need it and I would like to know what the dreams say.

    • Dreams say that she has not completely left you yet (part of the dream with the door)

      The dog is talking about some friend with whom you had a fight or will fight.

      The girl strives for independence and well-being. (part with the car).

      • it turned out that I had difficulty in life, the stress was strong and I was generally closed in myself, and we just started dating for only three weeks, we met further, there was mutual sympathy and she says that yes I had feelings for you, but then disappointment in view of that that I paid little attention to her and didn’t behave like she should, and she was offended, and when I woke up after three weeks, but we corresponded all the time and I tried to explain something, and then I realized that I fell in love with her and began again to achieve her pleasant surprises to do, etc., but she already says they should have done all this before, but here they say time has already passed and cannot reciprocate, she says only friendship can give. at the moment when I began to look after her again, he beautifully explained that I understood my mistake, they say, give me a chance to correct myself, but she’s all about one thing, I can’t answer with feelings, I can only give you friendship. at the moment we started to figure something out and I was trying to prove my feelings for her at her job, difficulties lost my job, I understand it’s difficult for her now he said let’s be friends then, otherwise the negativity has already gone, she repels me all. how do you tell me to do it? to give time for her to go away from stress and then somehow start some kind of movement more than friendship? after some time ... but out of sight I will not let her go for sure. be interested as a friend. and on this basis, dreams are dreaming, when we stood talking together, she smiled and asked about what my goals were for her, and then a little later I saw her in a car, by the way, and her car. she saw me herself, since I was on the sidelines and waved her hand smiling at the garage.

        • It means that she does not want to hurt you, but wants to continue to be on good terms. This period must be experienced.
          Good luck and happiness to you. I hope that your love is still ahead!

    Thanks!!!

    Good morning, Happy New Year to you!
    I did not know where to write and decided to write here.
    Today I dreamed that I was sitting in the assembly hall, and not far from me was my young man with his ex-girlfriend, and he was just reaching for her, and she just smiled at him. Then he leaves with her and her friends who were also there. In the assembly hall, for some reason, everyone gathered about burying some person in a coffin, and scattering the ashes of the other two in the wind, it never came to that.
    in real life this girl loves me young man. What does this dream mean? Is there something to be afraid of?

    • If you know a person who was lying in a coffin, you can congratulate him on excellent health.
      And such a dream promises you a disagreement with someone from your inner circle.

      Yes, and thanks for the congratulations, Anastasia! Happy Holidays to you too!
      Haven't visited my site in a while.

    Hello!!! So I tried what you advised me ... I even went to church. But there is no sense. For almost a month, my ex-girlfriend continues to dream of me! I don’t know what to do ..

    • Thank you for your interpretations and congratulations :) Recently, dreams have become unmemorable, so I didn’t come in :(
      and tell me more please. Today my best friend dreamed that she was arranging my wedding. I was afraid to tell her about the proposal of the hand and heart of my chosen one for a long time, and when she said she took up the arrangement of the wedding in full. True, according to her idea, we had to get married in the lower red (I chose the color) underwear and near the river. At the end of the dream, when everything was ready, my mother appeared and told my friend that she was against my fiancé.
      Is it true that such a dream promises my friend a fateful meeting?

    Hello! I dreamed that I was sitting at the station and a very beautiful girl came up to me, she said I missed her so much. And I recognize my ex-girlfriend in her, then we kiss on the cheek. And then I see that my current girlfriend is sitting next to me and immediately attacked me with a scandal, and I kind of excuse myself that I didn’t recognize my ex and didn’t understand what happened, and then I woke up abruptly. I will be very grateful for the interpretation))))

    • To melancholy and sadness such a dream will be seen. This is evidenced by a kiss and the reaction of your current girlfriend in a dream.

    hello, I was with a girl for a year and a half, New Year she made me a surprise, went to another, I haven’t been talking for almost 3 weeks, and today I had a dream, she rang the doorbell, I opened it and asked her how you can even come to me after that, she lowered her head and said, I’m sorry , after which she blushed almost burst into tears, I hugged her, we went to my house and talked about something (without litter) I was jealous, but I didn’t even stutter for her boyfriend, in general, the conversation was calm, and at least for a given time she had there is a guy, but in the social. networks, she left a photo with me, but not with him. Is it possible that she will return? Thank you very much in advance! d

    • It may very well be. After all, a dream is precisely with the arrival to you, and this indicates a return back. But dreams are dreams, and how it will be in real life depends entirely on you. Be sensitive and attentive and then you will be happy. Good luck and happiness!

    today I heard a doorbell ring, I quickly went to the door, I opened it, there was no one there, I went to the stairs, not a rustle either, at first I thought that the roof had already gone, went home and asked my brother, it turns out that he also heard some kind of nonsense . And by the way, the call was at a time when she was just being released, I know her daily routine well.

    Hello!!! For the second night in a row, I dream that I am in the army ... Although in reality this is not possible .. I am not fit .. What can it mean? Thank you in advance!

    • They say that the army dreams of fire. This fire can manifest itself both in the sense of emotions (quarrels and conflicts), and in a completely physical sense (like a fire).

    Hello. I had a dream with my ex-girlfriend, we met with her two years ago. We don't communicate in real life. She said she didn't love me. The dream was like this I walk at work and suddenly notice my ex and come up myself and instead of just saying hello we kiss on the lips and I remember in a moment we walk hugging and kissing on the lips we walk at my work feeling so very pleasant and I flew with happiness

    • The dream says that old problems can suddenly declare their existence. Be careful, as they seem harmless at first.

    Hello! Broke up with a girl after 6 years of dating. They loved each other very much. Recently, I have been dreaming very often. That everything is fine with us. In the last dreams: in one we met at work (because we used to work together before parting) and she told me that she loved me and I reciprocated, and the dream was interrupted. And in the other, I’m already at a new job and suddenly she calls me, calls me “dad” (she used to call me that) and asks how I’m doing, what I’m doing. Thanks in advance!

    • Apparently, it's not over yet. Perhaps she was waiting for an offer from you? Still, 6 years is a long time.

      • I proposed to her! And she immediately agreed. But in my opinion, she had some disagreements with her mother because of domestic problems. She was the initiator of the breakup, but at the last meeting at work she cried very much. Maybe these dreams are telling me something, suggesting something?

        • Most likely, she still has feelings for you. Just because of the problems she had, she did stupid things. I think that you should wait and help her in her difficulties.

    Thanks a lot!!! I'll hope!

    • Please! If it doesn't make it difficult for you, Vadim, write later how everything goes.
      Many of your comments will help solve their problems.

    Good afternoon, I would like to ask what a recent dream means.
    As a preface: lived with a girl in a civil marriage for several years. Sometimes there were conversations from the category “you give me little time”, well, about the wedding, “when, how, where?” She went to another, explaining that I was cold to her and she had other relationships that she was ready to develop and cherish.
    I had depression, tried to explain to her, asked for a second chance, but the answer was no.
    I dreamed twice. The first time: I was standing on the bridge, I have some kind of briefcase in my hands, which feels very important to me. I go to meet her, someone snatches the spruce desks from me and runs away. I followed him, I can’t see his face, I caught up and could only grab a briefcase. Then some kind of house and she stands in front of him, enters it, I follow her. Room, pictures, I talk to her about what we dreamed about big house And how did it happen, I ask. She does not answer, then we hug. The next moment of sleep is something similar to a wedding ceremony, but I cannot make out who is standing next to me.
    The next day I felt relief and depression began to go away little by little.
    The second dream: I am walking past some silhouettes (all in black and white) and with peripheral vision I see that someone in a green dress is moving towards me. I stop and see if it fits. He tells me: why am I writing to her and I can’t leave her alone and save her from my poems. I don’t understand what she is talking about, because we haven’t been talking for half a year and I haven’t written her for a long time, let alone poetry (the last one I wrote when we parted). Then an old friend appears and says that he wrote on my behalf, while taking all the necessary information about my life and experiences from my blog on the Internet (which I don’t have). I have a strong desire to explain to her. I take a step towards her, but next to her is her boyfriend and he, as it were, closes her with his whole body. I go up and push him in the face with my hand. After that, I dream of some kind of chase in the labyrinths for my ex-girlfriend. Moreover, I understand where she can run away and block her paths, but I constantly see only her back. During the chase, doors and wet footprints appear both next to them and on the doors (footprints). I open the last door knowing that she ran down another corridor and will run out to meet me. So it is, she falls right into my hands and, having caught her, I lift her into the air like a child, then I hug her, but there is no reciprocity on her part. The dream breaks and I wake up.
    Between these two dreams the difference is 3-4 months. Now she plans to marry her husband and the guy who was in the dream is exactly the one she is marrying.

    • The first dream speaks of distant hope. Something important is gradually moving away from you. And a lot was left unsaid on your part. That's why the wedding seems so muddy, you can't figure out who is getting married. Perhaps it is your expectations and aspirations that melted away after the end of the relationship.
      The last dream speaks of doubts on her part. She is not quite happy with what she has, but she tries to convince herself of the opposite. It would be more correct to say that she did not understand that something more was hidden behind your coldness, but it was already too late. But her new boyfriend is your complete opposite, but still something is missing. The problem lies in the fact that you did not agree with her to the end: it is from here that the labyrinths, the doors in dreams. Of course, it's better not to rush the relationship with her, but you can very likely expect her to return, if, of course, you want to accept it back. Although you are complex people.

    Hello! The girl said on the 20th of December that she did not love, on her initiative they broke up. She wanted to communicate, but I was against it and did not answer. After the new year, she wrote me a happy new year, etc., I answered each other, we talked a little. Then some time later at 6 am she texted me “:-*”. I ignored. I thought everything - so everything. All this time I often dreamed of everything. I was offended that she quit so abruptly, out of spite I wrote to her friend that I want to meet this friend's sister. She found out. I then met with the former, because of this antics, she began to stupidly meet with someone. I apologized, said that I want to be together, she said that she would think for a month and call. I came to her a day later with a teddy bear and a ball, she kicked me out, said we agreed in a month. Then, when I was driving in the car, I called and said don’t call, etc., I was completely upset. She wrote to me after SMS “I am changing the type number everything”. and what I said “Do not call or write to me. Forget me". Then I went to a strip club (I have never been to such places), ordered a dance, asked for a photo of the dance and posted it on VKontakte. Deleted the page three days later. I registered there again and put myself in a new style. I think about her a lot, all the time. Yesterday I dreamed as follows. We are sitting in the apartment where my grandparents lived, my grandparents (my father's parents, who are no longer there), my parents, my aunt (dad's sister) and between them an ex-girlfriend were sitting. I take a separate chair, put it in the center and say a little uncertainly that this is my future wife, I want to marry her. She gets up and sits on a chair with a sincere smile, I put my hands on her shoulders. Everyone else has the same normal faces as they were. Then we go somewhere by car. We get into a traffic jam, she gets out and then I also get out, I go after her, I go, and I can’t catch up, I woke up in such pleasant feelings and with sadness that we weren’t together. I myself feel some kind of inconsistency. Just like a sharp cut. He was always faithful to her. And even now, I don't want to meet anyone yet. What can this dream mean?

    • I wanted to add that we met for three years. She was waiting for an offer from me. But I had such a nervous moment - I had a new job - it was very hard at first + she pressed that I didn’t think about us, although I thought and thought in January, my parents should get to know her and she knew about it.

      • Perhaps she is your destiny. After all, a dream, when all relatives surround, look and smile, says a lot.
        Still, you need to change yourself first. And then try to renew the relationship, if, of course, you decide to do so.

    • The image of your relatives is important here. Grandparents who died are the most important symbol in a dream. Read at.
      But here I can say that they seem to be talking about your fate. I had a reader. So the late grandmother brought a man to her in a dream, took them by the hands, and then that girl really met her fate.

    The ex-girlfriend often dreams, met for 3.5 years. Now he is married. She dreams that she comes to me and says that she cannot live without me, and she left her boyfriend.

    • Most likely, you have left unsaid moments. If you broke up recently, then these are emotions.

    Good evening!! I don’t know how to write briefly but understandably about my dreams, I’ll try, but at first briefly, I lived with a girl for 5 years in a civil marriage, I loved her very much, there was everything, but the last thing that happened I felt that someone had appeared, and I had to leave for the border, although they planned that at first I would take it away. I'm trying to build my life, live with another, and love her until she finally lets go, but for now, one more. 2 years have passed sometimes, but I quickly forgot my dream, and then a tragedy happened in Volgograd last year, my parents insisted that I call them, live healthy, all the same, 5 years together, called, talked in vain, it turned out that my mother was very sick of her, had an operation, I I sympathized, said I would pray for her recovery, well, at the end I told her that I was getting married, she asked me to invite you to the wedding, I answered no, well, in principle everything, it became easier on my soul and that’s it ...... I didn’t think I didn’t remember and then a month later I had a dream - I met her somewhere in distant seemingly familiar places, as if there was nothing between us, sorry, I don’t remember, but it seemed to me that we were supposed to get married, and in a friend she wasn’t around and someone told me that she died, I can’t predict, but it hurt me even in a dream and I woke up, as always I looked out the window to forget the dream, but I didn’t forget, it tormented me and began to dig in dream books and dug up that I should hide it for the longevity of that person, calmed down and forgot. But today I had another dream after a week, as if we were together in bed, everything is fine, we are glad that we are together again and immediately another episode / what I remember, we are walking through some kind of park or something similar to a lawn and young people are walking towards , she says this is my boyfriend, I was a little stunned for a while and pressed her to me and said we’re going all right and then the third episode that I remember we eat by car, I think they ran away from them, dead ends mazes, and something cleared up, and she’s nearby did not appear and woke up. Sorry for the long story, I’ve been reading dream books all day and for some reason I stopped on your site, I felt that it’s worth writing here, although I’m not willing to share my life, I really want to figure out what’s going on, thanks in advance

    • Hello Victor! Thank you for your trust and thank you for describing everything in such detail.
      So let's start with the first dream. He hints that for you it no longer existed. That is, the part of you that loved her is gone. It takes a lot of effort to revive these relationships. So think before you call or text her. How not to get burned a second time.
      The second dream clearly indicates insult and betrayal on her part in the past. It is very difficult to forget him.
      The third says that she is now in a rather difficult period. Understandable, in my opinion, a symbol - labyrinths.
      I want you to understand yourself first and foremost. By the way, as I understand it, you told a lie about getting married. It probably hurt her.

      • Thank you for answering, yes, I told a lie just so that she would not disturb me in the future, since earlier there were attempts on her part to resume communication. I have been dealing with myself for 2 years already, there are candidates to try to arrange a personal life, one thing stops me, something holds me deep, it feels like the past, how to dream and immediately fog in my head, I forget about real life, I understand that this is most likely from the fact that they parted at a distance without looking into each other’s eyes, which is why I don’t dare to enter into a new relationship so as not to disillusion someone. Probably all the same, you need to turn to a psychologist, I go to church sometimes, it was easier to turn to fortune-tellers, but I returned again. Thanks

    Hello! Tell me what you can do to no longer dream!
    The fact is that I broke up with my girlfriend 10 years ago, and now I don’t remember her and don’t love her anymore, but as soon as I forget about her, that is, even in my thoughts, she starts to dream of me! This has been going on for 10 years, I'm already tired of it, I understand that you can not attach importance to this! But still, I think this has been happening for so long, then this must mean something, and I don’t know what to do!

    • Maybe what happened to her. This is the easiest option.
      And in order not to dream, tell a dream to a stone or a candle flame. Folk methods help some.

    Good afternoon. Please explain, we broke up with a girl about a month ago on her initiative. I had a dream this morning, I remember that he just looks at me and then says - Well, probably we will never see each other again! It hurt so much, I try to ask why and the dream is interrupted! Before that, for a week, I probably dream that for some reason I’m walking along the middle of the road along a solid night already, I’m thinking about something. Suddenly I feel that I need to look back, turn around and see an ex-girlfriend who is sitting in a car (not her own) driving and turning. I start moving towards her, she waits for me to come, then asks how are you and what I'm doing. I replied - that's how bad it is! And went out to think! She says okay okay, be careful and leave. Then the dream is interrupted and I already see a large spider on the floor on the floor, he notices me and begins to crawl towards me. I stand, do nothing, watch what will happen, he jumps on me and gets on my neck and crawls to my face. I was scared that he would bite me, I try to take it off and I can’t (at the same time I can’t understand whether he bites me or not), then I wake up for a while and fall asleep again. The dream continues from the moment where it ended, only I’m already calm, I turn around and see something like a bag (as if it were mine), I open it and I see just a bunch of the same spiders there, I was surprised to close the bag and put it where it stood. Then I go to the door to go out and see a dog that is eating something, I come closer and I see a mountain of dead spiders, this dog did everything. The dream ended and I woke up.

    • Spiders are a lot of problems that have been falling down, falling down and continuing to fall down on your head. However, you have excellent friends who will help you cope with everything (they are represented by the symbol of a dog in a dream). As for the ex-girlfriend, we can say that you were on an equal footing with her. She supported you in many ways, you are sorely lacking now. It is difficult to judge her return, perhaps something else will be dreamed of.

    Hello, such is the dream, the mother of the ex-girlfriend had a dream, she smiled and was friendly. Then, the ex-girlfriend herself came, she also smiled and was positive towards me. Then I woke up with pleasant sensations and mood. Why this dream?
    We broke up with the girl for six months at her initiative, she doesn’t go to communicate all this time. I saw her mother only once.

    • Something harms you and prevents you from reaching your full potential. Review some aspects of your life. Perhaps, after making important decisions, many things will change in better side. If you want to improve your relationship, try talking to your ex-girlfriend's mom. Sometimes mothers can help their daughters make a choice.

    Help with sleep please!
    Met a girl for 4 months, then began to live together. Lived for 2.5 years. Quarreled and swore on the basis of jealousy and mistrust. Love and passion, despite this, are very strong. She left me by cheating while I was on a trip. Found another ... .. Says it's a coincidence.

    2-3 weeks have passed, I have a dream; I go into some room, and I see how my beloved ex with some guy on the couch have already started foreplay, they saw me and soazu stopped doing it!

    What does it mean???

    • There are still some unresolved cases. Questions not asked.
      In addition, resentment against her still does not allow you to live in peace. Dreams can be a projection of a bitter feeling from betrayal.
      If I understand correctly, you still love her, and hence the many problems that have either been or are happening. It takes up too much space in your thoughts.

    Hello, I need your help in explaining, six months ago I broke up with a girl, on a not very good note, (they said everything to each other and parted). Today I dreamed that I was in some kind of special operation and saw this ex-girlfriend, saw that she had a different hairstyle and a different hair color (in a dream she was a blonde), but in reality she is a brunette. And also when we crossed paths with her, we did not communicate and tried not to look at each other. What does this even mean?

    • Light hair color indicates the hope of reunion, which is possible, but for this you will have to make many concessions on your part.
      In addition, the dream speaks of understatement and the adoption of some fateful decisions in the future (special operation in your dream speaks of this).

    Hello, please tell me how to be!

    I broke up with a girl after a very vile betrayal, it will soon be a year since we don’t communicate, I had a dream about an ex, sat with her in a hotel room, tried to cuddle up to me, but I was proud and tried to be restrained and cold, had a dialogue with her, told her about her current man, she said that she was not with him, but the feeling of distrust did not let me go, and there was some kind of disgust for her, she seemed unattractive to me

    • She would like to return, but too much negativity has been done by her. The dream speaks of intentions for reconciliation. But do you need it? Another question already.

    Hello author) the article is very good and useful)
    I broke up with a girl about 9 months ago (we met for about 5 years), for about 5 months she lives with another guy and everything seems to be fine with them.
    But please tell me why I had such a dream (it comes in fragments):
    First, I find myself in her apartment, from her words I understood that she rents one room here and she has three children, and we sort of renewed our relationship and live together.
    Then we find ourselves with her on the street, the month of March, there is still a little snow, slush, mud on the street. We are going somewhere in a big company, she goes and smokes a cigarette (and she didn’t smoke before), and accidentally shakes the ashes on me, and says nothing and goes on. I remember she was wearing a yellow dress and a jacket on top.
    Then we stand in front of the box office of the cinema, and 15 meters away is her ex-boyfriend and she is talking to him about something. And after that he goes with us somewhere.
    End of sleep.
    Thanks in advance for the interpretation

    • Now your ex is going through a difficult period - apparently, quite a lot of problems and cases have fallen on her. Thought about the past. And you had a dream, because the spiritual connection between you still remained, but every day it is less and less.
      For you personally, it is worth seeing in this dream a symbol of dirty snow, which is usually a dream for a scandal. Ashes mean the end of your relationship. A new life is open to you.
      Any questions, then ask, Oleg.

    More than two years ago, I broke up with my ex, let's say we didn't break up very well. So my friends became nothing to her. She doesn't even greet them, avoids them. Haven't seen her in two years. I know that after parting in 4 months she has a wedding. We met for 7 years.
    Well, now she dreams almost every day. Probably already. Month two. I'm on a fishing trip... Then I'm with her. I clearly remember the following dreams ....
    I'm sitting on the street on a bench with some girl. She comes up with the child and says where is it Kindergarten. I show and she leaves.
    Here's another. We sit at my house in the kitchen and she sits with her head down. I ask her what are you doing? How do you do without me? She looks into her eyes and says it's bad. Then she lets go of her head again and starts screaming that it’s not her fault, it’s her mother who made her do it.
    Also, I'm sitting at her house. Her mother is looking for some slippers for me. Found and gives. White white slippers….. I put them on and leave.
    Today I dreamed that it was as if we had not parted. But in a dream, kissing her was squeamish .... Like fu, someone has something there .... then she spread a sheet in the hall on the floor and gave me a pillow, I lay down and to my right was sitting next to me her best friend with which I have long been at odds. I talk to them both as if nothing had happened.
    Here's another dream I remembered. Some guy comes up and starts asking about her. Such a question, what do you say about her, normal? Well, they say I wanted to know how I respond about it. I told the truth, I speak good girl, her mother is really not very ....

    I’m already tired of seeing these dreams at all .... Moreover, these dreams alternate with a river ... I catch fish, then I climb up a tree and looking down the river flows.
    I don’t know how to interpret such dreams; in reality, I don’t think about the former at all. Forgave not long ago and let go. And even if now she drops everything and comes back .. I will say no. It's 100%

    • If you are a fisherman, then you cannot interpret the river.
      If not, then the dream suggests that something new is waiting for you. But from the past you will receive sad news. By the way, the former now is probably not happy with her current relationship.

      • I am not a fisherman. And he wasn't.
        And by what dream exactly did you understand that the sad news is from the past? thanks in advance

        • On white slippers. I have articles about slippers, read them.

    Most likely, this interpretation is more suitable for my sleep:
    “In a dream, the ex-girlfriend dreamed of being joyful and cheerful - for a new meeting and pleasant acquaintances.”
    But, just in case, I'll tell you:
    He broke up with the girl quite calmly, it suited both of them, well, from the outside, of course; and what was really in the soul, only we know with her.
    Everything suited me, because I saw what the relationship was heading for in advance, I didn’t see much return from it, but there were feelings, but they didn’t outweigh anything, so I felt more relief after parting than sadness, much more.
    But she decided to part, most likely because she was squeezed. In short, in principle, all of her entourage, starting with her mother, sawed her brains every day about me.
    We broke up more than a month ago, I have made new acquaintances for a long time, etc., and today, in some century, I had a dream, and the dream is this:
    I’m sitting at the table, eating soup and adding beans from a can to it on the go, suddenly from behind “fu, what a horror” I turn around, I see the former (does not like beans), quite energetic, apparently just came from a workout or jogging, I don’t know, she’s on her own wave, obviously, she just threw this phrase to me and continued to actively go about her business, sort of like getting ready for a shower. Well, the only thing I told her was “yes, I know that you don’t like beans” and went to wash my hands, washed it and that’s it. woke up.

    • I’ll add on my own that beans are a certain idea that occupies you in recent times.
      And so you correctly guessed what the dream is for.

    Hello. Tell me, please, what should I do ..., I broke up with my girlfriend already like 2 years ago, we lived together for 3 years. And I almost always saw her in my dreams. Then somehow it stopped. And after a while I started seeing her again in my dreams. In dreams: we are together again and we are very happy. And although the mind knows that this is a dream, every day the dream deceives my concepts more and more and I begin to believe that this is true and we got together again, and then waking up in the morning - I don’t believe that this is not true (((. And today I had a dream dream: as if we are in a bright room with her and she looks like on first dates, and I go up to her and kiss her on the neck - thinking that she is so good and beautiful - and I tell her: I love you, and she answers me : I love you too ... and I was overwhelmed with so many feelings .. when I woke up in the morning, I was so sad that it was a dream. And all day I thought, remembered these past feelings ... I always have dreams that she seems to converge with me ... how do I be? In real life she has a man and they are doing well. What do dreams mean, ...? Thanks in advance.

    • Probably, a new relationship awaits you ahead. True, the person will be different, but the feelings will be strong. Try to switch from these dreams to real life.

      • thank you very much for your advice.

    Hello! 2-3 days ago, my ex had a dream .... we broke up a year ago, since then I had a dream for the first time .... and said: “I HURT!” ... how can I interpret this dream? THANKS IN ADVANCE….

    • Between you there is still a connection that exists between people who are in close relationships. Apparently, something negative happened in her life, she thought about you.
      On the account of whether it is possible to renew relations, the dream is silent.

    Hello again! Thank you very much for the previous answer 🙂
    Again I dreamed of the same ex (I wrote the background of the relationship in the previous message (2 above) if it suddenly helps in the interpretation again) garai - nickname.

    So, only this time a little more unusual dream:
    I leave some room into the corridor, so it’s mine, but I don’t know for sure, and I meet her (in a dream, as I understand it, we haven’t seen each other for a very long time), she’s dressed, she was about to leave, I, completely not expecting her see, I say - “Oh, hello, where are you?” "Yes, it's time to leave." I thought that just go home, and then she adds that she is leaving, completely (and we are in real life from different cities). I look at her, I see that she has changed, and I say - “Yeah, very little is left of that Lena that I knew.” Then she comes even closer, I look straight into her face, and, attention, here is the most tinny, I see MY features on her face, (I am shocked in a dream) and I say - “Go crazy, you have become so similar to me, I look at you and see myself." She, not really believing, continues to say something to me in her own way, and from these words I recognize her and say - “Voot, and here I already recognize my Lena” ... approximately on this it already begins fragmentarily. I hugged her and that's it, she left.

    Once again, the background of our relationship, if necessary, a couple of messages higher
    (garai writes:
    March 10, 2014 at 12:30)

    • You are very similar to her on a spiritual level. Come to each other. However, in life there is still a chance to renew relations, so the “corridor” that you saw in a dream is long.
      Also, the dream suggests that you are at a kind of crossroads. Having chosen one path, it will be difficult to return to the other side.

      • Yes, the fact that we are similar to her is you really in the bullseye. But alas, it didn't work out. I'm not very eager to rebuild relationships. This is how it only reminds me of myself, in such ways, for the second time. And so in life I do not think about it. With the exception of reminders (a cup, for example, (it would be time to throw it away a long time ago).

        And at the crossroads of what? In terms of relationships, should I choose new ones or renew the old ones?

        • Yes, you understood correctly.

    Hello!) Now I had a dream about the former, although the last time, probably in August, I had a dream with her. We broke up a year ago, on her initiative, we broke up badly. The essence of the dream is that there are some kind of orienteering competitions in the city. She is there, but her appearance changes - sometimes a short haircut, sometimes a long one. In general, she wants to talk to me, but I run away from her. Then we find ourselves in some room, she kisses me on the lips, I do not move away. Something like this.

    • You will find many positive emotions in life. Here, as it were, your past is shown, where there were bitter moments. And the future, where it will be predominantly positive. It is very important in this dream to change the hairstyle: first, short hair (past bad) -> then long (future with great prospects). I think that on a personal level everything will turn out very well, at least the dream does not contradict this.

    Hello!) I also dreamed of an ex-girlfriend, dreamed of her face very close and that she was looking at me, and then she leaves very slowly for some reason with a bicycle) I would like to know what this means. Thanks in advance.

    • You should start your new life. Now there are many chances for success.

    Line of dreams.
    1) she is in my room, erotic content begins, suddenly her new boyfriend appears and, without noticing us, runs to meet my parents with a smile, I run away
    2) a deserted yard, gray tones, we walk with her (no smiles), then some forces pick me up, I take off, surprised, fly away, and therefore when I returned, I turn around, she is gone. I'm looking - I can't find it.
    right behind it:
    3) dawn, the sun rises, I am in the reeds (high grass) she finds me, with a small smile, settles down next to me

    • In my opinion, the dream shows your dynamic development of relationships, acquaintance and parting.
      In the beginning, the other guy is you. It's just that at first you and she were still other people.
      The second is about quarrels, parting.
      But the third stage is rather ambiguous. It promises new or revival of old relationships.

    We broke up two months ago on her initiative. I met my ex-girlfriend and we went to my place for the weekend, she treated me quite “coldly” the next day, in the evening I walked around the yards and saw how several guys were beating her, and then it turned out that in the yard in which I am, my friends are standing (a lot, 40 people are childhood friends, acquaintances, etc.) well, I ran to the aid of the first and shouted for help to my crowd of acquaintances. In general, then, like in a movie, we saved and we became hugging ... happy ending and stuff like that (I had a dream on Friday at noon) p.s. I apologize for my grammar.

    • I think that the dream suggests that not everything is in order with her.
      Maybe you should just find out how she's doing. No need to intervene if rejected. Maybe she really has some difficulties in her life, but she is afraid to ask for help.

    The beginning of the dream was not remembered ...
    I remember only from the moment when my girlfriend (with whom we broke up 5 months ago, but the feelings remained) becomes ill and she dies. I watch from the window of a high-rise building as they put her in a coffin on top of where her mother lies. Then some women (perhaps their acquaintances/relatives) take them to the cemetery.
    Please explain the interpretation. Thank you!

    • I think you are in for a change. Although the symbol of coffins and cemeteries itself are not bad signs in a dream. I recommend reading about them on my blog.

    I dreamed of an ex, with whom they parted very ugly with a scandal. In a dream, I was in her apartment, talked to her, tried to make peace ... She doesn’t answer me anything sensible, neither a specific “yes” nor a specific “no” .... I’m trying to kiss her, she doesn’t reciprocate, but she doesn’t repulse either ... Then I look away (there is a small hollow behind the sofa) I look, and another guy is hiding there, sitting and pretending not to notice us .... I say, wait who it is, my ex, as it were, begins to get wildly worried, at first she pretended that she herself did not know him, she sees him for the first time, but then it turns out that this is her new friend who came to her in front of me to talk, but then I came…. And what is he hiding from us then, if he is just a friend? She could not give a sensible answer to this question ... I remember vaguely further, but after a while I woke up ...

    the second dream, I dream again that we are together, I am at her house, we have not yet officially reconciled, this has not been said aloud in words, but I feel that things are moving towards this. I begin to seduce, she answers me with tenderness and affection, takes a seductive pose, I start sex with a mixed feeling of rapture (here we are finally together again) and some kind of anxiety (what if it's just a dream). this is where the dream ends, I wake up...

    the third dream, again about her, but not quite ... that is, the dream begins and I see my ex-girlfriend in front of me, let's call her Olya. I don’t remember what we did, it seemed like we were cleaning the apartment ... however, at some point, the image of a girl I met before her, before Olya, appears in her place. (let's call Anna). However, despite the fact that the image of the girl has changed to another, I don’t realize this, and I continue to consider her Olya, in the same way I feel love and sympathy for her, a little anxiety to do something wrong. At the same time, Anya's habits and behavior remained Olina's. In general, it turns out another girl with the character and past of Olya .... Then Ani's younger sister, her mother, appears in a dream. We all communicate together. However, I continue to love Anya, considering her to be Olya .... And only later, when I woke up, I realized that the image was Anya, but I felt Olya in her. I don't know how to explain it....
    I have not felt feelings for Anya for a long time and I have no secret hope for reconciliation and sympathy for her. I switched to Olya a long time ago.

    What can you say about these dreams ... They have been dreaming quite often lately, about once every 6-8 days.

    • I think that you will be waiting for fluctuating relationships and decision making.
      Perhaps the realization of the real reasons will come. I did not see specific symbols in my dreams. Just something emotional...

    Good afternoon. Do not tell me what it can mean if she dreams of an ex-girlfriend every few days and wants to give me something or say something?

    • Perhaps there will be significant news soon.

    We broke up almost a year and a half ago on her initiative. At first, like a puppy, he kept running after her, trying to get her back, she dreamed all the time! He suffered very badly. Then it slowly subsided, thank heavens we live in different cities, but she does not let herself be forgotten, she writes about once a month, finds out how things are and other common phrases, she wonders if she is still married ...
    She writes recently that she had a dream where I gave her gifts and wanted to give her a cross, but she didn’t even take 2 rings on a chain ... What could all this mean.?

    • I think it's too early to put an end to your relationship. Although the behavior of your girl is not clear. In addition, a dream with two rings is quite symbolic.

    Hello! In general, I have original dreams about the former ..., this is something, with something. So we broke up on July 16, 2013, well, like many who unsubscribed here, she was the initiator. She just left and that's it, she left in general to her relatives. But I'm sure she has someone. The reason is banal “lack of attention”, “indifference on my part” (although this is all just speculation on her part), what is going on inside me is known to God alone, I usually keep everything inside myself (maybe feelings because of this do not showed her so vividly ...), but I can say with confidence that on my part there was love, feelings, devotion!

    So, there were a lot of dreams during this time, different somewhere we just talked (I don’t remember what), somewhere we even sort of fought)). Once I had a dream in a new image ... But this is all lyrics, I understand that these are memories, thoughts about it that, of course, slip through me.

    BUT! Three or four days ago I had a “funny” dream. So evening, living room. I’m lying on the couch, getting ready for bed, and near the window (I still have a sofa there) lies a guy ..., I don’t see my face, my ex comes up to him (after the bath she came out in one white T-shirt with wet hair), she goes down to him on his knees and starts to give him a blowjob! I'm like BEE looking at all this and I don't understand what's going on??? I don’t understand what kind of sensations are starting to overcome me? It feels like even excitement has appeared ... They get up and go into the bedroom, characteristic “sounds” come from there, then a pause and she stealthily sneaks up to me like a cat, gentle, alluring, trying to seduce me, etc. I don’t remember exactly what happened next in a dream, it feels like she stayed with me (that other guy seemed to have evaporated in the morning). When I woke up, there was a feeling of ambiguous slight excitement from everything that was in the dream and a feeling of inadequacy ... even anxiety ...

    I also noticed that I dream about her when I REVERSELY BEGIN TO FORGET ABOUT HER!!! And..there BAM! Like some kind of attempt to remind yourself of something ?? ... (a couple of times it coincided that after dreams about her, she then really called ... she said that she needed to return a couple of little things that she left with me, she always returned everything through her relatives.) Not I know at all. Feelings remained for her, yes! I can still write, of course, but even so I SCRIPTED VERY MUCH))). Thank you!

    • Thanks for the comment. It's nice that you write correctly, and you can write like that, if you have something to write, of course.
      I think that your ex-girlfriend has some desire to return to you, but there is also back side medals. In general, something stops her. Perhaps it is you, or rather the features in you that do not suit her. Such a “piquant” dream indicates a connection that still remains between you, that is, a small fire that has a chance to inflate into a real flame.
      As for interesting symbols, I would note wet hair and a sofa. These two symbols of the sofa mean - inaction, and hair - renewal and change.

      • Thanks for the answer! Honestly, about the SOFA, the same thought slipped through;). Definitely worth working on! Though in an attempt to return the old relationship, even in a new one!

    Good afternoon, after I saw my ex, I drunk said a lot of superfluous things to her, more precisely to her friend in the presence of the former, in the form of black jokes in her direction, to which she reacted nervously to this, then she was completely offended and left, after I dreamed of this, oddly enough I don’t remember when she had previously dreamed of me in general in a dream, she ran after me and said like I know that you like me and you are the place to say silently and I denied it and froze, why would it?

    I see her in my dreams very often... The last one was very, so to speak, real - with complete control of oneself in a dream, with thoughts, etc. corresponding to reality. We met in some room, a conversation began, which eventually turned into apologies and regrets that everything happened this way. were together again. In the morning, even somehow it became sad from the fact that it was just a dream

    • Do you only tell dreams or do you know something else?

      • Dream interpretation is my hobby.

    the girl left for another about five months ago and I never saw her again. but I often see it in a dream, sometimes we have sex, sometimes we just kiss, sometimes I see it with another, and today I dreamed about how I came to her for my things and ended up in bed. then they started talking. she said that she didn’t have love for the new guy, but he treats her well and fully provides for her and added that there might be a child. after which I had a bad feeling and I began to dress quickly, but I could not find my pants in any way - and woke up.

    • The dream speaks of danger. This refers to the flowers that you saw in a dream. And also the inability to deal with difficulties. Apparently, your ex is not doing well, she needs help. Although it is unlikely that she will admit, since the offense will be stronger.

      • And now, three days later, she accidentally called, I don’t even know what to think about sleep.

        Good morning. I have a month of dreams
        As I said, she casually called yesterday, just remembered that she left her thing with me. And at night I had a dream again. I went with old friends to break away to another city (now they are old friends, we have not been talking for many years). There we found ourselves in some kind of apartment (large, with a good repair). At first it was fun, everyone drank, met the girls and invited them there. Then everything began to annoy me and soon I saw a dog in the apartment, she was drooping and thin, no one noticed her, and she walked around the apartment with a pitiful muzzle. I called her after me, went into the kitchen and took out the meat and fed her, she threw me on the floor after eating and began to lick my face, happily wagging her tail. Then I woke up.

        • I think the dog is a symbol of the friend you will meet. Perhaps the beginning of a new relationship with a girl.

  1. Today I had a dream that my ex-girlfriend in a dream chose me and not some other guy and then we had sex with her. In a dream, her mother was still present, she went looking for them with her sister. Why such a dream? actually her mother))

    • Apparently, she did not want your parting. I thought it was right for her.

    Hello.
    Today I dreamed for the first time of my ex-girlfriend, whom I left 4 months ago. In a dream, I went into my room, but for some reason there was an old renovation, and she was sitting on the sofa. I approached her and asked what she was doing here, to which she replied: “I want you to become my husband!” and got two wedding rings in a case, gold rings (although this is her least favorite metal), but VERY shiny and beautiful, I have never seen such a metal in my life. He takes out a ring and gives it to me, I resist taking it, I don’t want to think in my head: “I broke up with you and I don’t want a repeat!” But the ring is on my finger. I raise my hand and look at this lovely ring and ask her: “Why gold? You don't like gold." She replied: “This grandmother inherited!”.
    Something like this, I don’t even know what to think, all dream books do not describe such situations that a man would be proposed in a dream and even an ex!

    • Are you really finished? Judging by the dream, there are still many chances. Golden rings, grandmother's symbol...

    Hello! Help me please. I dreamed 3 about an ex-girlfriend. It's been 3 months since we broke up with her.
    1) we were together with her, everything was fine together.
    2) I insisted that we meet and talk. She came, but did not want to communicate with me and in every possible way resisted my touches. She did not want to restore our relationship.
    3) I was walking past her house, they had open gates for plowing and her mother walked there, I just walked by and after 5 minutes her mother calls, starts scolding, screaming, says leave my daughter alone, and stuff like that I tell her I explain that we have been talking with her for a long time. And then I wake up.

    Why is this all????

    • It seems that there is a chance of reconciliation.

    Good afternoon. I broke up with my girlfriend 2 months ago. I had a dream, I met my ex in a cafe, we started talking, and at that moment two guys come in, as I understand one of them is her boyfriend, he starts yelling at her, and they leave abruptly. I take her hand, and we quickly go to my car, we observe such a picture - they walk near my car (most likely they were engaged in vandalism, the dream did not let me see what they did), when they saw us, they abruptly got into their car . I jumped on the hood abruptly and remember that I began to tear off the license plate in order to remember the numbers. This is where the dream ended.

    • Such a dream may indicate the receipt of some information about the girl, perhaps everything in her life is not going as perfectly as we would like.

    Hello! I broke up with a girl 3 weeks ago, we were together for almost 7 years, everything was fine, but then she decided to leave, she wanted more freedom and new feelings. And since then, dreams have been happening all the time, all different. 1) I take the phone from her, and I want to find something there.
    2) we had sex and talked about something later.
    3) We swore a lot, she said that she did not love.
    4) we stood at my house and hugged, I held her tightly and we reconciled, and my parents were standing next to me.
    Why all this? I love her very much and think about her all the time.

    • More precisely, my mother stood behind my ex-girlfriend.

      When we broke up, we still talked, and she said several times that even if she realized that she had made a mistake by breaking up with me, she would not return, because she thinks that my family considers her now bad. (Everyone makes mistakes, life without instruction)...

      • I dreamed from Friday to Saturday, I don’t know if this matters.
        But I remember, a week before parting, I dreamed of the sea, I swam with some girls (I don’t remember exactly, I couldn’t remember) I was raised a big wave and then disappeared abruptly, and I fell down. I read about such a dream, and it was written that this was for an unexpected parting, and that's how it all happened. Help, please, to understand.

        • I won’t tell you anything new about this, probably, the dream books turned out to be right in this case, unfortunately.

      • The one who writes a book on how to live without instructions is a great genius, unfortunately, such a person has not yet been born. You're right.

    • I think that dreams are a subconscious desire to be with her, as if you catch every news about her, carefully analyze what is happening in her life, possible changes. Often you think, therefore, dreams with her participation appear in you. Such a connection in this case is understandable.

      • Thanks for answering. My friend also had a dream that I had reconciled with my ex, and he was very surprised in a dream (why should he?). And you don’t know what the ship is dreaming of? I was on it, and it seemed to be mine and my family, we were swimming along the river, and then the picture changed dramatically, I saw a lot of eggs and collected them, they were whole, not broken, of the usual color.

        • It is good that the eggs were in such a state, this is positive in terms of the future, new prospects, prosperity, profit, success. The river is an indication of the future. The ship was in good condition, which means that there is hope, there are plans for the future and the necessary energy to put them into practice.

    Hello! Already 4 years have passed since I broke up with a girl, after her there were many relationships. Never crossed paths with her. Recently I dreamed that we didn’t part with her, and also continue to meet, celebrate her birthday together with her family, we are so happy in a dream that together we enjoy every minute. Tell me, please, how to formulate this dream?

    • Valery, most likely, the dream says that now you are ready for a new serious relationship. The past will remain in the past.

    Hello! We broke up with my former year back. A little more. I suffered through it painfully. I had a dream today: we quarrel, very strongly in my apartment. Some time passes, she comes back, says: “please forgive me” and kisses me, I hugged her. And woke up with it. What does it mean? I haven't spoken to her in six months.

    • Andrey, such a dream may indicate that you have not yet let her go internally, you still think about her, you probably need some more time for everything to normalize.

    Hello! In a dream, I was building or repairing a house, at that moment an ex-girlfriend came to me, with whom I was 7 years old, she began to apologize and ask for forgiveness for having betrayed me and asked to renew the relationship. Please interpret this dream.

    • Alan, most likely, such dreams are dreamed when life situation the former half does not add up according to an ideal scenario, thoughts arise that the past had its advantages.

    I hope you can help interpret the dreams, the former dreams regularly, at first the dreams were about her happy life, about her family, as if she was married and they had a child, and in these pictures I, as an observer, was like a neighbor, and her behavior was like God's dandelion, I almost uttered everything in a half whisper, and I heard words from the side that I was leaving fate, the second dream that I was at their house and tried to sort things out with her supposedly husband, the relationship, when he started to beat him, he just looked at me as the last person, I couldn’t and stopped for so long, the third dream is about her wedding and about my call at the last moment, there was a lot more, but I didn’t remember them for more than a day, and the last one, yesterday, I really don’t remember the essence of it, except for silver tears ... on this I woke up, we were together for 5 years, in this broke up in February, and now she has been with another for half a year ...

    • Dmitry, in fact, if you see the former happy, then these are favorable dreams, because they say that you are still thinking about her, but it is already getting easier. Tears, on the other hand, are often dreamed of, fortunately, as many dream books promise.
      A wedding is a change in life.

    Good day! I hope you can help me, better ask knowledgeable person than filling your head with all sorts of rubbish. We met a girl for 5 years, broke up that year (2014) somewhere in these periods, that is, October-November, here she is, starting from Monday, I dream every night, and the picture is as clear and distinct as a movie. I rarely dream, I’ll say even more, I don’t dream at all! And here it’s been the same thing for 3 nights, we sit and talk with her, a very calm atmosphere, either an apartment, or some kind of VIP room (but definitely not a cafe, that is, not a crowded place), the conversation always begins with the words . Her: “How are you? What’s interesting about how life goes on.” And I tell her everything. Then I ask, how are you? She doesn’t answer me, or I just don’t remember now, but the following, she: “I heard, I probably got married?” I answer yes. (although this is not a fact, that is, I did not find out much about it, but I heard such information). So, she tells me that this is not true. Why should I say this, I don’t understand, the dialogue itself takes place in a very calm, I would even say cozy, atmosphere, no intimate scenes, no kisses, nothing like communicating with a loved one (Or like with a psychologist, although the psychologist didn’t have , but if it happened, I think it would be the same). Just a conversation and it feels like this conversation lasts from the moment I fell asleep and ends as soon as I wake up. Dreams began little by little since September (but I guess so, due to the fact that I had a chance to talk about her, apparently, it went into a dream). (Very warm and kind feelings remained for her, but there was no option to return in my head). But lately I haven’t thought about it, haven’t talked about it, haven’t remembered it. I can't understand at all.

    • Ildar, perhaps the dream is not so accidental. Usually, ex-lovers dream more often immediately after a break in relations, then dreams pass gradually. In your case, the dream may have a different basis. I think that the reason is that some changes are taking place in her life, everything is not so perfect, there are problems. Perhaps thoughts came that her past, with its shortcomings and minuses, was better than the present.

    Sorry for posting here, but I couldn't find it. I dreamed about the ex-girlfriend of a guy I like. What is it for?

    • Perhaps some unpleasant memory from the past, a slight misunderstanding. For a deeper understanding of sleep, you need to remember it in more detail.

    Hello, I can't find this article anywhere. I dreamed of an ex-girlfriend who told a friend that she wanted to return the relationship, she said this to him behind my back, and I pretended that, like, I didn’t hear and climbed on the phone.

    • A novel, it is possible that the dream refers to reality. Recently remembered or talked about this person. Or they saw him, somehow thought. Your reaction (sitting on the phone) speaks of thoughtfulness, neutrality.

    I dreamed of an ex-girlfriend. I congratulated her on her birthday, and this congratulation was very touching and very beautifully said (in real life I never congratulated anyone like that, although I can speak beautifully), at some point I took her hands and continued my speech. This congratulation touched her, and her eyes sparkled, then she tightly hugged me by the neck, I hesitated a little, but then hugged her too. And she said: “Say that you love me”, I answered: “What will it change?” (or “What will it give?”), She: “Just say”, and after a pause I said that I love her.
    I know it sounds like a scene from a romantic movie, but I don't watch those movies.
    At the end of the summer it will be two years since all our relationships ended. She is in another country now. I don't follow her life. in social networks I haven’t visited her village for about a year now, I don’t ask for mutual friends either. I know that after me, she immediately got a new boyfriend, and they were together for about a little over six months. But they broke up and she went abroad. Since then, I haven't heard anything about her.
    What can this dream mean?

    • Andrei, perhaps receiving news about her, she may surprise you.

    Good evening.
    I've been in a relationship for a long time. I broke up with my ex girlfriend about 6 years ago. It seems like it was on my initiative, although everything was confusing there, I even regretted it more than once, for some reason I was drawn.
    In general, I dreamed about a week ago.
    Darkness, the street, and she abruptly appears in front of me in tears, hugs, says something, it’s hard to remember .. it feels like she regrets everything and finally wants to be together after so many years and everything that happened. I myself in a dream seem to feel how my tears flowed. It was mutual. I remember in a dream I began to think about how to say this to the current girl. Then we went somewhere .. But I don’t really remember anything, except for feelings. It was a great happiness that I was with my ex, as if everything was as it should be. And there was sadness about the current one, I really didn’t want to do bad things to her. With the current one, everything is just fine with us. But such strong feelings were in a dream. I haven’t seen the former for about 5 years. Since that day, almost every day she dreams, it’s not so bright anymore, sometimes it’s even difficult to remember what exactly was in the dream.
    Please help me understand this.

    • Anton, such a dream may indicate difficulties in relations with the current girlfriend. Or talk about some significant event in that life. Perhaps trouble came to her house?!

    Hello! I broke up with a girl less than a month ago, she wanted so much, even before breaking up she had another guy with whom she fell madly in love. I continue to love her until now, it is difficult for me without her, and I would be glad to return her.

    The dream was from Thursday to Friday. I dreamed the following:
    In a dream, I found myself at a time when we were together and happy, we met. But then a third participant appears in a dream, a young man who pays attention to my girlfriend, I try to change the situation, but in vain, the girl starts to cool off towards me and completely switches to this guy. They start a relationship, I feel them meet, I see them running on the sandy surface together.
    Then I see how I go to a store near her house and buy cigarettes (in reality I smoke), I stand on the porch of the store and smoke with a man who he doesn’t remember exactly, but in my opinion it was my work colleague. I light a cigarette, take a puff, but it suddenly breaks, falls to the floor and goes out, I swore that I was talking about cigarettes, it went out again.
    Then I again see the ex-girlfriend with my boyfriend, I see how someone is filming them on camera, and I see it as if I’m filming it myself - that is, through the lens of a video camera, I see how she is with her young son (she actually has one) and her new boyfriend is running on a very short lawn grass in a clearing in the shade of a tree, the girl and her boyfriend stood under a tree nearby, he was standing to her left, both facing the video camera. Suddenly, the girl's eyes darken, become dark brown, and her hands turn into large long bird wings of a dark purple-violet color, the girl makes a sharp cutting stroke of her left wing, as if cutting the air, above the head of her new boyfriend, it becomes dark purple smoke and disappears , then the girl takes on her normal appearance and they, together with her son, slowly run to the camera lens, the son at this moment has a happy face. Further, the camera lens begins to rise higher, as if the shooter jumped high.
    After that, the dream scene changes dramatically, I see how I am riding in the first subway car and start looking up, the ceiling of the subway shaft is transparent and I see that the subway train is going next to her house, the night sky, I see three very high houses in a row, on the houses very bright backlight. Then I get up from the seat and a woman I do not know quickly sits in my place. After that, I look out the window of the car and see the rails of neighboring branches, then the subway car begins to climb up the hill, preparing to leave for the surface, and this is where the dream ends.

    I will add that in a dream the former looks the same as in reality, the girl’s son in a dream looks the same as in reality, and the face of her new boyfriend is very different from what he is in real life, in real life he has a beard and a large number hair on his head, and in a dream he had a completely different face, different eyes, short blond hair and no beard, and indeed a different person in the form of her new boyfriend was in a dream.

    After this dream, I woke up abruptly at 2 am. Closer to 4 in the morning, I fell asleep again and I dreamed of a short scene - my ex and I were standing together, the atmosphere was good, we were kissing or hugging, I didn’t remember exactly, but some of it.

    Please, if it is not difficult, help to understand this complex dream and if possible a more detailed interpretation of the dream. I will be grateful!

    • Pavel, you have a rather meaningful dream, you should pay attention to key points. Through the whole dream, there is a connection with three people: the former, her son and her new boyfriend. This says that you often think about her, the times when you were together. The image of a new guy - here you think why it happened. It is likely that you compare yourself with him, wondering “why”, “how is he better than me”, etc. The first episode of sleep does not carry anything new, it simply retells what has already happened - you broke up, tried to show her that she is important to you, but it was unsuccessful.
      Buying cigarettes and the process of smoking itself speaks of difficult period after parting, it is possible that depression. It was difficult to adapt to new conditions. A dying cigarette is perhaps an image of repeated attempts to return it, to somehow show its significance in your life. In a word, this is from the past, it speaks of your vain actions. The tree is something that unites them. Wings - changes in her life, as if she "flew away" to another person. About the purple color - it is likely that this moment clarifies why she left. Usually this color speaks of striving for something big, development, which is more in line with her goals in life.
      The moment about the train personifies that everything in your life will gradually improve, go uphill. The dark tunnel of failure and frustration will end.
      The last dream at the level of dreams, thoughts. It is possible that it is not even a dream, but just a dream between reality and sleep.

Did you wake up in a cold sweat? What happened - did you dream about your ex? An unexpected surprise ... But do not be upset, perhaps such a dream warns you of any events that will happen in your life.

What does the ex-girlfriend dream about in a dream: answers to questions

In fact, there can be many explanations for such dreams, and in order to determine it, you need to understand yourself. Perhaps you constantly subconsciously remember your ex and you miss her. If so, the explanation for your dreams is that you did not stop loving her and miss this person very much. Listen to yourself - maybe you want her back? If you do not want this, we advise you to get acquainted with another girl, as well as stop any communication with the former. We also recommend finding a new hobby that will distract you from painful thoughts about her.

But what if you really really miss your ex-partner? Try to return it - call, apologize and give a bouquet. Believe me, in most cases this technique works perfectly and most likely the girl will again fall into your tender arms.

Dream Interpretation: what is the ex-girlfriend dreaming of

Come on, strain your memory and try to remember as many little things and details as possible. Perhaps some other people appeared in the dream, where your meeting took place, and whether you were in a dream at all.

If you felt joy and a surge of energy in a dream, all your further ideas and plans will be successful. If a dream is accompanied by not too pleasant sensations, be careful - perhaps danger or trouble ahead of you warns.

Also, a dream with an ex can mean the beginning of a new love affair. She can be with both the former and new girl. If you hug, kiss or have sex with her, this is a sign that she is subconsciously reaching out to you and often remembers your relationship.

Dreamed of an ex-girlfriend who cries? Well, this is a signal that says that it is unlikely that you will be able to return it, so you don’t even have to try. Start looking for a new love!

If the former is injured or is in the hospital, this indicates that there are unresolved issues between you. If she has recovered, then most likely you will make up again and meet.

If she is pregnant, but the child is not yours, which means that you have already completely separated and are unlikely to be together. Most often, in such cases, the relationship ends on a positive note. What if the child is yours? Understand yourself, as such a dream is a sign that you still have unresolved problems and feelings.

If your ex-girlfriend died in a dream, you don’t have to worry - your feelings for her have faded, forget about these relationships.

What is the dream of an ex-girlfriend with another?

This is a sign that you had problems with your sex life and most likely you did not satisfy the woman enough in bed. Such a dream is a signal - you have sexual problems that need to be addressed as quickly as possible.

As you can see, such a dream can be explained in different ways, in each case the cause is determined individually. You should not immediately panic after such dreams, it is likely that they do not mean anything at all.

The image of a girl in a dream, according to most interpreters, is an extremely positive sign. He portends pleasant events in the dreamer's life, promises him a cloudless and joyful future. But if suddenly you saw your ex-girlfriend in a dream, in this case the interpretation completely changes its meaning. If you dreamed of an ex-girlfriend, this may mean that you do not want to let go of your past, or the past is unceremoniously trying to invade your life.

What other interpretations of dreams with a former lover do dream books offer us?

Dreams with an ex-girlfriend are dreamed not only by young people, but also by girls. Usually girls see in a dream the former girlfriend of their lover, when for some reason they are jealous of his past. So, the theme of dreams about ex-girlfriends is wider than you might initially think.

The most common interpretation of dreams with an ex-girlfriend is that the young man's attachment to her is still too great. He does not want to let her go even in his thoughts.

In this case, it is customary to say that time heals. There is a high probability that after a certain amount of time the images of the ex-girlfriend will not be frequent guests in the night visions of the young man. And if he meets a new love, the probability of the appearance of a former lover in the dreams of a young man will completely approach zero.

The image of an ex-girlfriend in a dream usually excites and excites a young man, it can be difficult for him to immediately understand what he carries in himself. In this case, dream books recommend taking into account the events and actions that occur in a dream.

  • If a girl cries, such a dream shows that a young man, on a subconscious level, wants to protect his ex, calm him down, warm him up. But this is how the dream should be interpreted if the tears of the ex-girlfriend do not irritate the guy. If he clearly does not like the sentimental scene, such a dream should be regarded as an attempt to get away from the obsessive past.
  • The ex-girlfriend appeared completely naked in a dream - this is a warning that the guy should not share his secrets with others, otherwise his frankness can harm him. If a naked ex-lover tried to caress a young man, this may indicate problems in his new relationship.
  • Kissing in a dream with an ex-lover - usually such a dream means a guy’s obvious unwillingness to let go of his ex. He strives with all his might to return the past, even if another girl has appeared in his life.
  • If you dream of having sex with an ex-girlfriend, there are problems in the intimate sphere. There is a possibility that the young man is not quite satisfied with the new relationship. He lacks those experiences or physical components that were present in his relationship with his former lover.
  • A quarrel with an ex-girlfriend in a dream usually indicates that there is a lot left unsaid between the former couple - something that haunts; and this is reflected in night visions. If this dream is recurring - dreams from night to night, it is recommended to talk about the sore with your ex-girlfriend. If it is no longer possible for a frank conversation, then you should try to let go of the past relationship, having previously drawn the appropriate conclusions for yourself. Don't let your past rule your present!
  • If an ex-girlfriend had a dream with another, such a dream is intended to inform that past relationships are in the past. it good dream, it portends big changes in life. The young man is ready for a new relationship, throwing all the sentimental rubbish of memories out of his head, internal dialogues and regrets.
  • Dead ex-girlfriend - this strange and slightly frightening dream can be seen if the young man is on the verge of a new life and is ready to let new love into his heart. Often he reports a guy's love, even if he himself does not know about it.

If a girl dreamed of her boyfriend's ex-lover

Dreams about ex-girlfriends are visited not only by young people, but also by girls. In this case, they usually reflect the image of the former lover of their gentleman, and express hidden jealousy or doubts about the honesty of the second half. Somewhere on a subconscious level, there is a suspicion that a loved one is still not indifferent to his former passion and values ​​\u200b\u200bthe previous relationship.

If such dreams are recurring, the problem should not be ignored. In this situation, it is worth talking openly with your lover. There is a possibility that the girl invented difficulties for herself, but in fact there are no reasons for jealousy: feelings for ex girlfriend left in the past.

Otherwise, if the guy is still dreaming about his ex, you should think carefully and decide how to live on: whether to keep the complicated relationship or break it off in one fell swoop. But don't wait for the problem to resolve itself.

This dream has several different meanings. Usually a guy begins to remember his passion and dream about her, hoping in the depths of his soul that his girlfriend will return.

It is for this reason that the former girl may dream of him for some time after parting - this is how the subconscious comes to terms with the loss. However, there are several interpretations of what a guy's ex-girlfriend dreams of most often.

You need to interpret such dreams depending on your attitude to what happened, an honest awareness of desires, including the desire to return everything even after she said her word, as well as the prescription of your separation.

Here is what such a dream could mean. Pay attention to the main emotion of the dream and what scared or surprised you.

Light nostalgia

It is always difficult to part with a loved one, especially not on your own initiative. The subconscious does not want to let go of emotions when everything is fine, it wants to return. Therefore, if you dreamed of an ex-girlfriend in scenes from the past, when nothing changes in a dream, then this most often means nostalgia and a desire to return her.

Or realize what happened in the past, so as not to repeat your own mistakes. At the same time, pictures of the past do not come when you sort things out or try to return it in various ways, but after some time.

The dream interpretation of the ex-girlfriend, if she is the same as she was before, is interpreted as a sign that you have not yet come to terms with the loss. Most likely, attachment and the hope that she will come to her senses and return to you again prevent the final parting. At least that's what the scenes from the past say. Therefore, you dream that you are together again, kissing, or she worries about losing you, begins not to sleep and is jealous.

The dream interpretation writes why such plots may be dreamed of: you want everything to continue again until you are ready to let go of the situation. And until you recover from the loss, such dreams will continue indefinitely.

Dreams with changes

If you constantly dream of an ex-girlfriend different or with one plot, then such a dream means that the relationship is not completely over. Dreaming about places where you were happy usually means nostalgia and old memories, and seeing an ex-girlfriend in tears in a dream or not the same as in life is always a change. Or to the fact that the final parting is yet to come.

A dream in which she changed her hair color, repainted, changed her behavior and clothes - to the news. Although in some cases this means that her attitude towards you will change.

The change depends on your attitude towards her new image. If he is unpleasant and she had to become like you don’t like, why is this a dream?

The dream interpretation writes that such a dream means unpleasant news, quarrels or a final parting with her. It is possible that soon you will learn about the true reason for what happened very soon.

What is your ex-girlfriend dreaming about with another guy? In some situations, such a dream simply means your own curiosity about this. Quite often, such a dream turns out to be prophetic.

So, if your ex-girlfriend is dreaming of a friend or just an acquaintance, a man, then soon you will actually meet her with him.

And why can you have dreams in which the passion asks you for forgiveness, cries or is jealous? it good sign, although it does not always mean that she will return to you. Most likely, you will soon have a new hobby or you will not accept your former lover.

If, after a long time after breaking up, you kiss, hug or have sex with her, then this may mean an unexpected meeting with her. It is possible that you will be able to reconcile with her and remain friends, although in rare cases the dream book writes that the ex-girlfriend dreams that you will soon fall in love with another person.

It is no secret that dreams are sent to us by our own subconscious. In them, we relive past events, find ourselves in unforeseen situations, and may even find ourselves in our future. Many dreams can be easily deciphered - just open the dream book on the desired page. But now there are quite a lot of dream books, so the interpretation of the same dream can be twofold.

Take at least a common case: a guy often dreams of his ex-girlfriend. What is it for? The simplest answer is that he often remembers her, experiences past feelings, she sunk too deep into her soul. The subconscious mind itself imposes on a person his attachment in a dream. But not everything is so clear. So, what does the ex-girlfriend mean in a dream?

Some dream books assure: to see your former love in a dream - to a very soon meeting with her, but already in reality. Often this can serve as a signal that a friend is also thinking about you, she cannot completely get your meetings out of her head. But such a dream should be analyzed even deeper - it is quite possible that the matter is in you.

Nostalgic for an ex-love? Dreaming of rekindling a broken relationship? Then do not be surprised if an ex-girlfriend appeared to you in a dream. It is your own memory that sends her image, again and again forcing you to experience the events of the past and fantasize about new meetings. If you dreamed that you were together again, and the girl herself wanted to return to you, this is a good sign. There is an inner connection between you. Perhaps this portends a real date and reunion.

In a dream where is your ex love cries, she has some kind of trouble or grief, there is also a possibility of an analogy with real events. Perhaps with a person who was so close to you once, a disaster really happened, and your help will not interfere with him.

But what if your ex-girlfriend in a dream is already dating someone else? In addition to your own jealousy and longing for her, this can also mean a new relationship for you. Be patient - and, quite likely, a more rosy future awaits you with a new love.

If in your dream the former appeared "in an interesting position", this is also for a new novel. And you still do not stop comparing your current soul mate with the one of the past. At the same time, you are tormented by curiosity - but how does her intimate life develop?

Marrying your ex-girlfriend in a dream is a big change in your personal life. Perhaps you will begin to meet with someone whom you have not noticed before. And, who knows, maybe this dream will soon come true - but with a different heroine.

If for guys such dreams basically mean a subconscious message: “I can’t forget my ex-girlfriend!”, Then what could this mean for the representatives of the weaker sex themselves? How to interpret the appearance in a dream of an ex-girlfriend of a boyfriend, husband, just a friend or an old acquaintance?


Often this dream portends jealousy and trouble on the personal front. This is because you even subconsciously constantly compare yourself with a ghost from the past - with the former. Maybe it's time to relax and be yourself?

As for the rest of the women from the past, they can unconsciously pop up in your memory: under the influence of virtual communication, a remotely familiar face that flashed on the street, attempts to renew old connections and establish contacts. And you can really expect a meeting in reality soon.

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