Chapter Five Erogenous Zones Our imaginary sexologist has just wondered: is the patient's sexual problem a "sexual neurosis" or is his sexuality simply underdeveloped, as a result of which he lacks the desired sexual responses? FROM

Erogenous zones- areas on the skin, the impact on which causes pleasant sexual sensations. The location of erogenous zones on the human body is individual. The sensitivity of the zones can vary in one person depending on the circumstances (mood, well-being, fatigue, etc.). With age, some areas may become more sensitive, while others may lose sensitivity. Previous sexual experience can also affect the sensitivity of erogenous zones.

Exposure to erogenous zones during or leads to an increase, appearance and onset (discharge).

The most typical location of the erogenous zones y and y is shown below.

The most sensitive male erogenous zones include: the glans penis, the inner part of the foreskin, which opens when the head of the penis is exposed, the place behind the coronal groove (the neck of the penis is the place where the penis passes into the head), the scrotum, the inguinal region next to the scrotum.

In addition to the external genitalia, some men also have more neutral erogenous zones: ears, neck, chest, buttocks, and, to a lesser extent, hips.

There are certain patterns of perception by a man of sexual impulses emanating from women, which should not be considered a dogma, but it is still necessary to take into account. First of all, this is the order in which a woman influences the erogenous zones of a man, which is determined both by the degree of sexual emancipation of partners and the purpose of the impact.

If caresses are in the nature of sexual stimulation, serve to stimulate sexual activity before intercourse, then they should begin with peripheral erogenous zones. That is, caress the legs, stomach, chest and, as a peak, move on to caressing the genitals. The best option is to practice the following sequence: chiropracting of the peripheral erogenous zones - chiropracting of the main erogenous zones - oral caresses of the peripheral erogenous zones - oral caresses of the main erogenous zones - intercourse.

If caresses are preparatory before the first intercourse, then they should not be too long in order to avoid possible premature ejaculation and loss of penile erection by a man. But even if a man has a strong erection without female caresses, then a woman should not conclude from this that her caresses are not necessary or unnecessary. Another thing, a woman should remember that a man is excited faster than a woman, so the duration of the preliminary love game should be somewhat shorter than the woman herself would need. But there can be no exact indicator here. It all depends on individual characteristics. And knowing the sexual characteristics of your partner is a matter of time and your attentiveness. Caresses carried out by a woman after the first ejaculation, regardless of the methods of leading to it, may be longer if it is envisaged that they serve as a prelude to the second, third and subsequent intercourse. The order of influence on male erogenous zones remains approximately the same. But now caresses can be diversified and enriched without the risk of causing premature ejaculation. Very effective caresses male body female breast. Moreover, the sequence of impact on the erogenous zones of a man by the female breast is preserved: from the peripheral zones to the main ones. The whole complex of sexual stimulation with the breast is preferable to place between positions 2-3 or 3-4. If we depict female tactics of influencing male erogenous zones, then the conditional scheme will look like this:

Before the first intercourse: 1-2-7-5-6 before the second and subsequent intercourse: 1-2-7-3-4-5-6, -

where the numbers are:

• 1 - manual caresses of peripheral erogenous zones;

• 2 - manual caresses of the main erogenous zones;

• 3 - breast caresses of peripheral erogenous zones;

• 4 - breast caresses of the central erogenous zones;

• 5 - oral caresses of the central erogenous zones;

• 6 - intercourse;

• 7 - oral caresses of peripheral erogenous zones.

Caresses of erogenous zones are necessary both before and after intercourse. And not so much to excite a man (he needs it less woman), how much to create an emotional background for a woman’s passion for a man, his body. It always flatters male pride. But the game is dangerous! The caresses carried out after intercourse are carried out in the reverse order, that is, the impact on the erogenous zones is carried out in the order of the extinction of their sensitivity to sexual irritation. Schemes 6, 5, 7, 2, 1 (after the first intercourse) and 6, 5, 4, 3, 7, 2, 1 (after subsequent intercourse).

Erogenous zones of a woman

The location of erogenous zones on the body of a woman differs significantly from that of men.

1. They are differentiated, that is, they are located almost throughout the body of a woman, and are not concentrated mainly in the genital area, as in a man.
2. Peripheral erogenous zones in women are significantly more sensitive than men and therefore play a more important role in sex.
3. Erogenous zones in women are much more individual than in men. What excites one woman sharply may be indifferent or even unpleasant to another.
4. Erogenous zones in women swim, that is, they change their position throughout life.

The main erogenous zones in women are (see table below)

1. . The most sensitive is the upper third of the vagina; caresses of the posterior fornix of the vagina and cervix somehow excite only about a third of women. However, those women whom these caresses excite, they, as a rule, excite sharply.
2. especially the nipples. Many women enjoy oral nipple caresses. When a woman is aroused, her nipples swell and harden.
3. . Most women enjoy kissing. However, only a third of women like kissing with; moreover, about a quarter of all women they are unpleasant.
4. Inner thighs
5. for about half of the women. Many women like neck kisses.
6. Lower abdomen for about half of women.
7. Fingers for 40% of women.
8. - many women like oral caresses of the ears, in particular earlobes.
9. Small of the back
10. Sacrum

As a rule, it is not an erogenous zone. Only 10% of women caresses in this area are pleasant at least to some extent; besides, they are sharply unpleasant to many women.

The so-called "cat's place" (the area between the shoulder blades) is not an erogenous zone either. The vast majority of women caresses in this area are indifferent, although there are exceptions.

A man should be able to recognize which of his touches gives a woman more joy and pleasure, and take this into account in the future. In addition, a man must remember that without his influence on the erogenous zones of a woman, she will not receive proper satisfaction from sexual intercourse, and in the worst case, she will not even be ready for sexual intercourse and remain disappointed. For many women, foreplay means even more than the act itself.

You should take care of the methods of influencing the erogenous zones. They should be diverse both in manual execution and in emotional coloring. Moreover, with caresses, the magnitude of the applied efforts can range from light touches and strokes to fairly strong, and sometimes somewhat rough squeezes, squeezes, bites. In this case, one should take into account not one's own ideas about the magnitude of these efforts, but pay attention to the physical and emotional reaction of the partner. Many women enjoy some rudeness and minor pain caused by the man they like, but this has nothing to do with the masochistically sadistic style of sexual relations. An indicator that a woman likes such rudeness can be her movements towards her partner, moans, fragmentary compliments to a man, strong and sensual hugs, gentle biting of her partner’s body, biting her lip or lightly scratching her partner. With this behavior of the partner, "rudeness" can be increased to reasonable limits. And vice versa, if a woman opened her previously closed eyes, tried to push her partner away, move to the side, back away, move her legs or arms into a position that is not conducive to love game or intercourse, then you should stop such caresses and move on to mutually acceptable ones. But not abruptly, as a change in mood can lead to a drop in arousal and desire for intimacy.

It is necessary to influence the erogenous zones of a woman from the periphery to the center. Most successful contacts a man begins to influence the erogenous zones of a woman located in open places.

Embrace the woman with your hands around the neck and cheeks, touching the ears and hair behind them with your fingers. Then run your tongue along the lips of the partner, which is why they usually open slightly, exposing their teeth. There are many varieties of kisses, this is another topic for conversation. Let's just say that kissing a woman on the lips, neck, a man already excites her, without at the same time performing any actions in relation to the main erogenous zones of the partner, which, with its sharp directness, could shock the woman and discourage the desire for closer contact.

Many women are very pleased when a man plunges his tongue into her ear, playing with tickling there. If a woman normally perceives these caresses, a man can proceed to more decisive actions. A kind of massage would be appropriate here, with which a partner can walk through the main erogenous zones of a woman, even through clothes - these are stroking and squeezing caresses of the shoulders, chest, waist, back, hips, legs. Usually after that the woman allows herself to be undressed. It is not worth taking off all the clothes from a woman at once, since gradualness in this excites a woman more. A man is also more excited about an almost naked woman than an undressed one. A man, kissing a woman, achieves her tacit consent to undress, and undressing her, is excited by the beauty of a naked body and covers it with kisses. Thus, a vicious circle is obtained in which both partners win.

Women are very excited from kissing the breast, especially the nipple and areola, biting it, massaging it with fingers, tickling with lips, tongue, touching it with the genitals, especially the naked head of the penis.

After these caresses, it will be justified to go lower, affecting the erogenous zones of the genital area. Pleasantly exciting for a woman will be kissing, tickling the tongue of the labia minora, clitoris, etc.

Many women love it when hands, lips, genitals caress different erogenous zones at the same time. But it should be borne in mind that a woman, like a man, focuses her attention on the most powerful sensations, which naturally come from the main erogenous zones. Therefore, you can caress at the same time two or three main or two or three minor erogenous zones. If a man caresses the peripheral zone with his tongue (for example, the thigh), and with his hand - the main one (for example, the clitoris), then all the partner’s attention is focused on the sensations emanating from the main source of pleasure, and the man’s peripheral efforts often remain either ineffective or even distracting, and therefore unnecessary. After sexual intercourse, repeated caresses of the woman's erogenous zones are necessary, but in the reverse order - from the center to the periphery. A passionate woman is more suitable for a fast pace of caresses, and a more calm one is slow.

Table "Erogenous zones of a woman"

The main erogenous zones in women are (especially the nipples), inner thighs,. Sensitivity may change throughout life, depending on general condition women. In addition to those mentioned, many other parts of a woman's body can become erogenous zones. A general idea of ​​the ratio of the sensitivity of some erogenous zones in different women can be obtained from the following table (the table shows the number of women interviewed who gave an appropriate assessment of the sensitivity of the erogenous zone).

As for the hands as such, try caressing the elbows and armpits. Pay close attention to the reaction, there is a risk that your man will be tickled.

Breast

Playing with curls on the chest can be a warm-up for more daring caresses. As for the nipples, everything is individual. For some men, touching them brings untold pleasure. With these, use the entire arsenal of touches.

But we must remember that, unlike women, nipples are not such a powerful erogenous zone for men, and sometimes caresses even cause discomfort.

If your chosen one is one of these, look for another place to apply your passion. For example, try the elements of a body-body massage - stroke his bare chest with your wide strokes.

Stomach

For men, caresses of the abdomen are a signal that a woman is about to begin the most important thing. In addition to the caresses of the palms, breasts and abdomen that come to mind, try the crown spiral massage.

To do this, you need to put a man on his back, saddle him from above, bow his head strongly, put his head on the man’s navel and make circular movements with his head, gradually expanding the circles. We assure you, he has never experienced such sensations.

Legs

Many men admit that foot massage is very exciting for them. It is not for nothing that in Eastern countries there is such a tradition as washing the feet of one's spouse with water.

Also, do not ignore the area with reverse side knee, she is extremely susceptible to tenderness. Since each man has his own threshold of sensitivity, such procedures may seem very ticklish to some.

Back

Yes, yes, including the back. Often this area is left without due attention, and meanwhile, several erogenous zones are located on the back at once, such as the area of ​​the sacrum and the interscapular space. Massage movements are best done from top to bottom.

Your chosen one will be pleasantly surprised if you diversify stroking with your hands, for example, touching your chest or running the ends of your hair along your back, or maybe with a delicate feather or sharp claws, or maybe even crush it with your feet. Fantasize, be unpredictable and never get bored with your partner!

The most important

We deliberately left out the caresses of the penis, perineum and anus. Usually, women are somewhat aware of what to do with these male erogenous zones in order to cause arousal. But you want not just sex, but one that will become memorable and unusual for your man.

The secret reception of Thai masseuses

Often, men who have lived in Thailand with a local girlfriend, returning, feel that something is missing in making love with any other woman. It turns out that the Thai put the so-called anchor on the body of a man. If this anchor is not activated during sex, it seems to a man that caresses are not full and pleasant enough. So Thais protect themselves from betrayal.

How to install this anchor? You need to choose two non-banal parts of the body of your chosen one. You will pay attention to one zone before the very beginning of sex, to caress the other after the end of coitus. You need to do this for seven sexual acts in a row, so the anchor will be fixed. In the future, it is desirable to keep the anchor up to date.

Zones should be those that are rarely touched in ordinary life. If you pat your partner on the shoulder at the beginning of each act, then any friendly pat in the office later can lead to unnecessary excitement.

But if you choose the right secret place, which means "dear, there will be sex soon," then you can excite your partner in the future by caressing this zone. Similarly, instead of the annoying "I have a headache," you can caress the final zone, and your partner's romantic intentions will subside by themselves.

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